How's the firing pin stop (part 22) looking? That's the part in the back of the slide with the rear of the firing pin sticking out slightly and is what pushes the hammer down when the slide is retracted. To remove it, cock the hammer and push the firing pin in with a small rod or a ball point pen point. It's supposed to have a rounded edge on the bottom for the hammer to ride down on.
The firing pin stop can then be removed by sliding it downward, but watch it because as soon as it is removed, the firing pin will spring out and possibly get lost. Or worse, hitcha in the eye.
The second thing to look for is that the safety isn't disengaging correctly somehow. There's a detent hole in it with which the slide stop plunger engages and either the hole or the plunger pin or its spring might be worn sufficiently to keep the safety in position --either "Safe" or "Off." This plunger is contained in the little tube above the left grip.
The third thing to check is that the disconnector isn't partly jammed in its hole, or that the slot in the slide which actuates the disconnector isn't burred or something.
The fourth thing to check is that the barrel link isn't broken or too worn to let the barrel unlock from the slide reliably, but this does not sound like what it is from your description.
The genius of the 1911 is that it's a very simple mechanism, designed to be stripped and maintained in the field without tools --which is the genius of the design. There are a lot of field-stripping instructions available on the net and unless you lose a part, it comes apart and goes together again quite easily without risk. (Unloaded and no magazine in it, of course.) Military specification ("milspec") parts are readily available.
Here's a sample. I didn't watch the whole thing, but it's only a sample:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAAH9Rq-dkM
However, five'll getcha ten that just a detail strip and cleaning and proper lubing will solve the problem, per Post 3 by texastele .
Terry, 230RN