For a novice, I'd recommend four things, since you've got to send thousands of rounds downrange before you master any handgun and be able to shoot really well:
1. A good 4" barrel .22LR revolver . . . and preferably a S&W. With a .22, you can send thousands of rounds downrange for mere pennies per round . . . and the gun won't kick and make you develop an accuracy-killing "flinch!" If you've priced centerfire handgun ammo lately you'll see how some rounds cost a buck a shot to send a round downrange. Not so with .22LR ammo!!! You'll quickly save enough to buy another gun . . . while mastering the .22 revolver through cheap practice!
2. A set of ear muffs so your won't develop a "flinch," along with protective eyewear.
3. Invest in a good instructor who can show you correct handgun technique (as well as gun safety). I cannot overemphasize how important it is to totally understand and master the super-fine motor skills and techniques of proper hand, grip and trigger control!
You can thus end up being an awesome handgun shooter, rather than suck at it like most shooters. Technique is everything!
4. Finally, when you are now ready . . . buy that awesome revolver you've learned to love via shooting lots of different types that your instructor (or friends) may allow you to shoot!
Frankly, after mastering the .22 . . . you'll bypass the little .32 guns for a much more proven defensive round . . . and your mastery of stance and grip will have allowed you to shoot without worrying about recoil!
Again, a .22 revolver will allow you to master shooting AND save a huge quantity of money doing so . . . enough to buy your SECOND revolver . . . your dream self defense caliber one!
Food for thought!
PS: My recommendations for a good, all-around revolver?
1. A 3" revolver will shoot as accurately in experienced hands as a 4." Thus . . . a 3" Model 65 (stainless) or Model 13 (blued) will be an awesome .357 magnum revolver that can also shoot .38 spl. too! The S&W triggers are superior to other brands . . . and a great trigger is the largest single thing that folks can do to improve accuracy.
2. For concealed carry purposes, either of the above revolvers would do well in belt-type holsters. However, my ALWAYS on me gun is my little 5-shot S&W lightweight J-frame . . . a Model 37 "Airweight" in .38 spl. No gun is suitable if you don't have it handy when the BG surprises you!!!
Even these little snubbies with 1 7/8" barrels will shoot quite well in the hands of handgunners with proper technique AND I can't think of many people who would want to be shot with one either!!!
Here's a target shot from 10 yards, standing and totally unsupported. The target was "just" a 1" black square. With training and practice, you should be able to do the same too:
Best wishes in finding the right guns for you!