I could have stated it in a more concise way also. The more streamlined a bullet gets, the longer it gets at the same weight. But the tip is all that matters as for mag length. The sleeker, higher BC bullet, then has to be seated deeper in the case to keep the tip at the same length. If the bullet has a long gradual ogive, it will be inside the end of the neck, so the neck can't grip it. This of course limits powder capacity, which limits velocity, so it may not be fast enough to stabilize.
Over-all-length should all be the same regardless of bullet weight, unless some are SHORTER than mag length. That could be so that a cannelure lines up with the case mouth.
I have a cartridge gauge that IF the bullet is at or below the end, it will fit and feed through my AR mags. I don't bother measuring OAL, if it's at the end of the gauge, it's kosher, if not, it gets seated deeper.
The heaviest I load for my my bushy AR,(1-9 20"), is the 69 nosler BTHP. I did try the 70 Berger VLD, but I could see they weren't fully stabilized at 100 yds. Groups were lousy as well.