I LOVE my kitty kitty kitty
I bought the two-tone Tomcat back in November and we've been inseparable ever since. She's a little chunkier that other girls of her caliber, but she's sturdy--definitely not some cheap tramp that falls apart when we go through stressful times (I hate that gal Kelly).
The tip-up barrel makes unloading for whatever reason very easy (eg, when entering the gunshop to browse); I leave her loaded in a desk drawer for bedtime till I leave the next morning. The extended safety lever on mine is just enough for peace of mind, and EASY to flip-up with thumb the second before your trigger finger enters the trigger guard on a quick-draw; as comparison, I have found the safety on a PPK/S odd enough that I didn't buy the gun, despite a true emotional response to the beauty of that piece since I was a wee kid.
If you consider dressy grips, note the style of safety lever you choose. Mine has "the extended lever" and after-market grips are slim to none, while the Tomcats with safeties just like the 21A can easily find new grips in wood, ivory, etc (if that's your bag). I think maybe only the blued have those 21A style safeties.
If you get a 'stainless' Tomcat instead of blued, also remember that the INOX--even just an INOX slide--makes the gun "thicker" down the slide. It's a devil finding holsters for the inox model, as almost all Tomcat holsters are made for the blued version. A mushy Nemesis pocket holster would work, but some fancy molded leather jacket for the girl is out of the question. Plus, it's a bit chunky for the pocket (I'm only 5'6" and 160 lbs; some 'big fellers' have wallets the size of phone books in their pockets, so just make sure to drop it in the pocket as you fondle it at the gunshop and pace a bit in pants that are snugger than most you own and see how it feels). The Kahr is .09 inches, the PPK is .98 inches, and the Tomcat is 1.11 inches, if that gives an idea; however, you gan get a good grip on her when she goes bang.
I believe that Gunners Alley online has a good selection of holsters for both blued and inox, and you can use the pulldown menu to select "stainless." Personally, I'm waiting on a Galco USA holster and using a self-modified Passport belly band--I had to make the 'pocket' smaller, but it's PERFECT for me, as I live in hot steamy Georgia and wear a dress shirt to work, so the slimmer and smaller, the better. Since the Tomcat IS so chunky, but not too heavy, the slim slim profile of the belly band really works well. I also found that an Uncle Mike's A1 ankle holster works very well with very little 'rock' when strapped well.
I'm about ready to place an order for a Seecamp--maybe even two. One for my wife because if the gun is small enough, then maybe she'll actually carry it on a regular basis (you know, got to have room in purse for her brush and lipstick--the necessities). I'm gonna get a second Seecamp because...I know I'll steal her Seecamp and leave her defenseless! I'll still love certain features of the Beretta more, such as easy-to-flip safety, tip-up barrel, etc, but with my clothing restrictions I need a second option. To conceal, I'd orefer the Seecamp; to aim at a bad guy and defend my life, I'd prefer the Beretta every day.
My wife had a Bobcat 25 cal when we met 10 years ago that her mom carried for five years before that. I took it to the range one day with the mag just as it was when my father-in-law slid it in 15 years ago, and guess what...BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG BANG. The first time I took my Tomcat to the range, I fed it 150 rounds of 3 different types of ammo, every now and then mixing it up with the defense ammo I was choosing (Feds), and it was like green corn through a goose.