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Do you ever feel guilty spending money on a new knife/other item?

Right now the money could go so many other places, but I feel one of my values is to continue collecting to impart them on my children while I'm here, and when I won't be.

How about you?
 
If you have real bills then it is irresponsible to put a hobby above getting rid of debt. Build memories of security for the kids instead.
 
Sure. I *need* another knife (or K-frame, or J-frame, or...) like Dick Cheney needs another heart attack.

But what the heck. I just did the Breed necker because it was there, looking all sultry, and I'm sure something else will come along in the next little while too. Always does.

:)
 
Trickle Charge

Over time, as we can afford it, we buy a little extra of this and that. A little food, a little water, a few supplies of one kind or another.

We don't have a budget that would tolerate funding "survival" as a one-off expense.

What we can do, however, is sprinkle "barter currency" among the things we put aside. One of the things in the barter currency category is extra inexpensive but decent quality, knives.

No, I don't need any more for my own personal use. I have enough of them that I have to use the word "hobby" to maintain any credibility. However, once a month or so, I pick up another $10 or $15 knife. Maybe a Mora, maybe a Buck, maybe a cheap Chinese ceramic knife (I can get those locally for less than $10, surprisingly good quality). When I find a real bargain (like a Kershaw Northside for half off) I'll pick up two or three.

These aren't really intended to be part of a "collection" per se, but they fill the role of knives I'm willing to lend, swap, or simply give away.

There's no guilt there.

They cost very little today. They'll hold their value tomorrow. They can be used to create good will, grease wheels, or just convey value.

Think of it as a kind of trickle charge.

Guilt would be if I ran off and bought a $200 knife without the wife's blessing. It would also be called "disharmony." :eek:

I prefer to have her on my side. :)

 
We have to find balance. I had a great friend who, at one point, had a weapons collection worth over $30,000. He neglected other things while pursuing duplicates of weapons he already owned.

I am not exaggerating when I say this type of short-sighted behavior is why he's dead today. :(

If you can reasonably buy something you want or genuinely need, do so. At the same time, don't be fooled into forgetting that money is important to survive and thrive, too. Whatever you do, don't let buying any weapon or tool become a ritual that you use when you feel life is uncertain, in the foolish belief you're exerting control. You're not.

John
 
Nope, no guilt here. I don't buy many knives or guns anymore but when I do I can afford it. Here I just bought this Griptilian and then the Group Buy comes along - can't do both as much as I'd like a large necker. Too bad for me, maybe next time. :)
 
Not guilty, but I have difficulty doing so. Currently, my knife needs appear to be relatively well met, so I can't really justify and rationalize the purchase of more knives.
 
There are knives I don't own because I've already got a couple decent EDC folders, a decent fixed blade, and a serviceable machete. There's always going to be some new knife (or some vintage knife) that I want no matter how many I buy.

Our finances are stable, I could buy whatever I wanted to if I really wanted to. I'd rather impart sensible buying habits and a resistance against hog-wild consumerism on my kids. Kids don't always value the stuff you value anyways.
 
I have to echo many of the sentiments here. In case of "need" you might have to sacrifice short termin other areas, but it shouldnt be a habit or "want" confused as a need. If you arent neglecting other priorities who am i to say how you spend your $.

As for me the guilt is less about $$ and more about the time. This is why i dont spend as much time grinding barstock as i would like or go out hunting very often. It is also one reason i dont golf.

How many of us know people that wonder why we want another edc, but they spend 500 on ANOTHER putter or driver
 
I don't ever feel guilty buying a gun or a knife because i only use "free" money to purchase them. Free because I make my hobbies support themselves. I'll borrow money from my self to buy something if I see a good deal. Whatever the deal is goes on Ebay. I take the money I "borrowed" from myself out of what I get for it and the surplus is free money. So the last several knives and gun purchases I've made have all cost me nothing. I hope that makes sense to someone other than me. It can get a little convoluted but I usually do very well for myself.
 
If you have real bills then it is irresponsible to put a hobby above getting rid of debt. Build memories of security for the kids instead.

Best Post of the Month, in any forum. It would be foolish for anyone not to head this advise.
 
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