The Remington in my experience is a good solid gun and will be the least expensive and the softest recoiling. Also the heaviest, by a wide margin.
I used to own a Beretta 390, which is similar to he Extrema. It is a great gun, probably the best all around.
I lucked into a great deal on a Benelli M-1 a couple of years ago and have used nothing else since. Even sold my Beretta. New, they are the most expensive. They are also the lightest. Most of my waterfowl hunting involves long walks in the woods to beaver ponds and I really like the lighter weight.
Any will do the job I think. I really like the Benelli, but do not think I would have ever spent the money to buy a new one. But now that I have it, it ain't for sale.