Maybe a dumb comment but I hand prime and I am sure I get variances in depth. In a lifetime of reloading, I have never spent two seconds worrying about how to seat a primer other than I want them fully seated because many will be fired from my 645 S&W revolver and flush or below is vital to that revolvers functioning.
That said, could the OP problem be, correct me if I am wrong, the fact CCI primers are harder that other brands?
Indents made in primers with a Lee Hardness Tester- the size of the indent from a 5/8" ball with 60 psi of the Lee Tester:
0.32 – CCI 300 LP
0.34 – Remington 9 ½ 6% - softer than CCI
0.40 – Winchester WLP – 25% softer than CCI
0.42 – Federal 150 LP – 31% softer than CCI
That said, could the OP problem be, correct me if I am wrong, the fact CCI primers are harder that other brands?
Indents made in primers with a Lee Hardness Tester- the size of the indent from a 5/8" ball with 60 psi of the Lee Tester:
0.32 – CCI 300 LP
0.34 – Remington 9 ½ 6% - softer than CCI
0.40 – Winchester WLP – 25% softer than CCI
0.42 – Federal 150 LP – 31% softer than CCI