I would say yes, the felt recoil would be the same or close. I have not shot any of the CorBon or Buffalo Bore rounds, they may be different. And it has been years since I have fired any Federal, Remington or Winchester factory ammo with any regularity. I did fire some PMC factory 357 mag, 158 gr JSP rounds just the other day for my CCW re-qualification. I chronoed them later at an average of 1128 fps from my 4" S&W M586. They seemed about the same as my reloads recoil wise. I have been an avid 357 mag guy for 30 years, felt recoil is something I ignore in any gun. Not being macho, I just learned that anticipating a big blast had a detrimental affect on my accuracy. Focus on the front sight and forget everything else.
After years of experimenting I have settled on two magnum loads for my 6" model 28 and my new 4" model 586. This is not counting the 38 spl loads that I shoot in quantity for practice. The reason I have two loads is simple. In nice weather I prefer to shoot outside at gongs, spinners, etc. Outside I shoot 14 grains of 2400 under a cast 158 gr LSWC, standard primer. This load averages 1286 fps in my 6" m28 and 1213 fps in my M586. This load is comfortable and accurate enough to hit a 12" gong at 50 yards consistently if I am having a good day.
My second load is for those days when the weather outside is cold and rainy and I want to shoot indoors. This load is 11.4 gr of Accurate #7 under a Zero brand 158 gr JSP. This also uses a standard primer. This load clocks 1158 fps on average from my 4" and 1190 fps from my 6". Also very clean.
Why change loads from outdoor to indoor? The outdoor loads produce more smoke than the indoor loads from the burning of the wax lube on the bullet. Some of the range guys didn't care for it. Also, I'm in California and two of the indoor ranges prohibit lead.
If you stay with the 357 round you can and may spend hours and days of fun and rewarding time trying different loads to find what works for you and your gun. Then you will get a new caliber and start all over.
P.S. I have loaded for the 38 spl, 45 ACP, 45 Colt, 9mm and several rifle cartridges. They are all fun, but the 357 is magical.
Steve Hart