Well the nice thing is you'll have plenty of choices; probably too many unless you narrow down some criteria!
I'll toss out my suggestions, but I think that all the guns listed would be worth considering.
If it were me looking for a compact 9 for carry I'd be tempted to pick up a CZ 2075 RAMI BD. I think it would fit every need you have but the possible downside would be the lack of off the shelf holsters. I really don't know what is offered for it because I don't own one but I'm sure that the choices would be more limited than what is available for more common concealed carry pistols.
I recently picked up a Ruger SR9c for my wife to use and so far I've been very impressed with it. It's quite accurate and it would be an easy pistol to conceal. I'm going to pick up a holster for it and probably carry it a bit myself!
I'll toss out my suggestions, but I think that all the guns listed would be worth considering.
If it were me looking for a compact 9 for carry I'd be tempted to pick up a CZ 2075 RAMI BD. I think it would fit every need you have but the possible downside would be the lack of off the shelf holsters. I really don't know what is offered for it because I don't own one but I'm sure that the choices would be more limited than what is available for more common concealed carry pistols.
I recently picked up a Ruger SR9c for my wife to use and so far I've been very impressed with it. It's quite accurate and it would be an easy pistol to conceal. I'm going to pick up a holster for it and probably carry it a bit myself!