the del-ton and psa kits where all you add is a stripped lower are a great option, but they are not in stock lately.
get yourself either a complete lower (gunbroker is a good source,but figure in shipping and ffl fees before purchasing).. or a stripped lower (i just picked up a PSA for 80 shipped and then found out my local dealer had the same lower for 100 out the door, so I got the one from gunbroker and picked up another from my dealer when i came in to do the paperwork on the other.
personally, last couple builds I did were in 6.8 and went with 18" mid weight barrels with mid length gas systems.
my next couple of builds will be a generic mid length gas system with dpms free float tube and yhm flip up sight gas block on an 18" mid weight barrel. one I will keep in 5.56 and the other is going to be my new experiment in 300 AAC (i don't like that they only make 9" and 16" barrels in this chambering, so got my barrel maker making one right now).
get a good upper and lower vise block set (there are some aluminum ones on ebay for like $30) . on the clam shell type of upper block sets be warned that some upper receivers are not in spec all the way and you could run into problems with this style of vise block.
set of punches from lowes for $9, an armorers wrench for $35 ish and a torque wrench from sears (the cheap dial kind is only mid $20) and you are good to go. a no go gauge is usefull as well and you can pick them up off or midway or brownells cheaply or from gunbroker or ebay .
once you build 1 AR you will want to build another or "tweak" yours.