Some lifestyles, I agreee, won't allow. Such as mine.
For one, I work at a University. No carrying here.
#2, I drive a convertible. I cannot safely lock the car, so I don't for fear of getting the top cut. Not that they are going to "sense" a gun in a parked car, but around campus cars get broke into for no reason at all. So I will not leave a hand gun in the car, or trunk since you just have to open the glovebox to pop the trunk.
#3, I have 4 kids, and the two youngest are always climbing on me, sticking their hands in my pockets, hanging off my belt, etc. I just don't want to have a handgun on me with them at this age. Now the teenagers won't even touch me unless they have to in order to steal my wallet.
#4, I too spend too much time drinking also! Really, whenever we go out for dinner, they serve alcohol, I buy alcohol. Not much, mind you, just a 32oz. draft with dinner.
Can't carry in establishments that serve it, so I don't carry it.
The times I have carried? When the wife had a dead battery at 12a.m.
Late evening runs grocery shopping alone, whenever I know I'm not going to a restaurant that serves, gun buybacks, out of town trips with my friends for a weekend getaway (comes off when the tops pop though!)
In the 4 years I have had a license, I have carried less than 15 times though. It is just comforting to know that I can legally, if I want to.