Color me lucky. I live in a blue state (MD), and most of my close family lives in blue states (NY, NJ). To make matters worse, I work at a university (lets see, on the red - blue spectrum, that's, ah, ultraviolet).
For further reference, I live in a county that will not let a law abiding business sell hard liquor. That's right, they even call it "liquor control". Color me dark royal blue.
I think I qualify to answer the question raised in this thread.
As I described recently on my weblog, I am looked at like I am an idiot because I am not a "Liberal" (of course, being a (l)ibertarian, I think of myself as a liberal, just not their kind). When discussions even brush up against issues of politics, I am sneered at, or ridiculed. Whereas others can spout off any political leftwing baloney they wish, and not be challenged, I am asked for a detailed thesis to back up any non-leftist point of view. The other day, someone who is a "blue-stater" at heart (from here on in, simply a "BS-er") deigned to ask me about (shudder) a topic that bordered on...sshhh... g-u-n-s, she literally put her nose in the air, and put a look of utter disgust on her face as she asked me where I would be going hunting.
Look, the BS-ers are spittin' mad. According to the ones I "get talked to by" It's not the failure of the Democratic party, or failure of their leftist message; rather, Bush won because the red staters are ignorant, and were duped by Karl Rove.
I'll end on a personal note: either my sanity or intelligence is questioned by the BS-ers when the discussion turns to politics. In the end, what most BS-ers really want from me is an explanation for my stupidity, not an explanation of my point of view (Is it Fox News?) . Either that, or they just treat me like a second class citizen. In fact, I am starting to get paranoid: sometimes, as I enter a room, dicussions...just...stop. The office Christmas Party is coming up on Wednesday. Think I'll go to the range.
Boltaction
To read some of the actual comments made to me over Thanksgiving turkey, rendered as a fictional account, go to:
http://www.individ.us/2004/11/still-dumb-again.html
http://www.individ.us