Convincing my Mom that it's okay for me to OC

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Why do some people get all worked up because someone wants to open carry rather than conceal carry. For one open carry is a LOT comfortable. Now the only time I have open carried is in the woods and near my house but I sometimes I print when I cc and all I get are the occasional looks. For one good for you deciding to open carry, I think someone already posted a link to it but there is a site call opencarry.org that is full of information.
Also to everyone else calm down really he just wants to open carry, so what if he lives with his parents these are hard economic times. He seems mature enough to me but I am actually younger than him.
As for the comment about people who open carry being "commandos" I have seen far more 1911s, single action revolvers and other more classic guns than Glocks being open carried. Best of luck to you, let us know how it goes, I have considered open carry and will probably start to oc at some point.
PS everyone please remember attack the argument not the person .
 
NavyLCDR said:
It makes absolutely no sense for a criminal to attack Joe Citizen who is known/seen to be armed.


It may or may not make sense to a given person at the time; you're off to a shaky start by trying to apply your logic to what another person may or may not do. People are not rational in general; this is even moreso the case with "criminals."

If your argument is hinging on the premise that "all violent criminals are rational and skilled at cost/benefit analysis, and only care about material benefits vs risk of danger, then I think you have the least correct conception of criminality that I could possibly imagine.
NavyLCDR said:
When 99.5% of the population does not visibly carry a firearm, why in the world would any criminal pick the .5% that does as a target?

Though this was clearly posted in a rhetorical manner, I'll bite. The violent criminal already forgoes conventional cost-benefit analysis (which, as I alluded, is being disproven every day in legitimate scientific journals dedicated to inquiry in economics, psychology, etc - without even introducing the element of criminality).

Would it be rational to pick "safer" targets? Yeah, sure. It would also be rational not to try to do something for, say, $20-100 a gig that carries with it a 5-to-life sentence, no? Violent criminals (as opposed to the much more broad, straw-man, "Criminals [presumably in general?] you refer to) are universally possessed of little or no impulse control.






NavyLCDR said:
Criminals have 3 main goals: 1. To get what they want. 2. To get what they want with the minimal amount of effort. 3. To get what they want without getting caught.

Oh, cool, are you a behaviorist? A psychologist? Criminologist? Got any citations?

Even if we accept "2" and "3" as a given, it's a known and proven fact that many violent criminals value their reputation (and thus seek reputation-enhancing opportunities such as going after harder targets - not to suggest they preferentially hit harder targets, but that their processing software does not view a 'harder target' the way a lay-person might imagine) at least as much as a "take" from a given crime.

As quoted by Lonnie H Athens in his work [I said:
Violent criminal acts and actors revisited[/I]]"Most commonly, [criminals] kill during some trivial quarrel, or their acts are triggered by some apparently unimportant incident, while deep and unconscious emotional needs are their basic motivation. Most murders occur on sudden impulse and in the heat of passion, in situations where the killer's emotions overcome his ability to reason.

NavyLCDR said:
Attacking an armed citizen greatly reduces the chances of any of those three goals from being accomplished. Mom, and the concealed carry only crowd, says you give up the element of surprise. But you gain the element of deterrence. The MAJORITY of criminals say they will be deterred by a known firearm. Why? Because there is absolutely NO REASON whatsoever for them to attack Joe Citizen who they know has the ability to kill them.

I concede the majority of criminals say that. Criminals in general, people who break laws, even the ones who end up incarcerated, are not violent. You may have seen a 20/20 interview but you haven't looked into serious inquiries of the psyches of these people if you think "deterrence via a visible firearm" is a viable option for the worst of the worst. By that logic, most criminals won't target a big, muscular guy - so let's just go to the gym instead of carry at all. Most criminals won't go after you if you don't have the appearance of wealth, etc. So let's just not wear fancy things. Etc etc ad nauseam; the point is that most people who carry do so for specific eventualities, not "the majority of situations (or criminals)," etc.

With that out of the way, and having addressed many of the premises of your argument, I will posit a counter-argument to the lynchpin of these Pro-OC posts we see all the time, which I interpret as follows:

"Though there is some small percentage of situations where it may be advantageous to conceal a firearm, the majority of potential criminal encounters will be thwarted by the visibility of a gun, and in cost-benefit analysis, OC is a (if not the) rational choice."

After the following counter-argument, I will continue to reply to NavyLCDR, and offer counter-points, because I feel his arguments are fairly representative of the OCers and thus of their often-fallacious reasoning.

The OCer (if represented by NavyLCDR's arguments) views the criminal assessment, and indeed the entire criminal interaction, as a relatively static interaction that is the result of pre-determined factors, such as "apparent value of target," "goal of criminal," "risk of targeting potential victim," etc. This goes against not only the consensus understanding of violent criminals, it also goes against sound strategy because deterrence through posturing is not necessarily a viable strategy in every situation, or even the majority of serious violence situations. Violent criminals are known to shoot it out with multiple police offers, take hostages with no intention of negotiation, etc.

Posturing I am defining here as a set of four possible options when confronted with the possibility of violence, and the other three are: Fight, Flight, or Submit. In the animal kingdom and the world of human interaction, these are essentially the four default choices.

The goal of posturing is to deter violent behavior through appearance of superior ability to do violence.

OCers on the whole claim that OCing is an effective strategy to deter violent crime on a consistent basis, but seem to never give a citation for how effective, nor even draw on criminological data to support their arguments - it is essentially a "common sense" type of argument, which is problematic as violent criminals clearly lack such "common sense."

As alluded to above one of the most problematic assumptions of the OCers is that posturing with a gun gives one the ability to deter crime, at little or no practical trade-off (argument addressed more in-depth below, in further reply to NavyLCDR). This is based on an almost Dungeons & Dragons-esque view of violent encounters that is not borne out in real life.

Two of the most important concepts I myself have learned, and utilized, in force-on-force training are the OODA loop as coined by Col. John Boyd, and the concept of unequal initiative. The OODA loop can be researched easily with Google and I'll leave anyone who wants to do that to it; the concept of unequal initiative is much more important and feeds into the OODA loop anyway.

In a serious encounter with a violent criminal, the potential victim does not possess the same initiative as the attacker. The attacker presumably has an understanding of how to commit violence, a plan to do so or ability to improvise, may well have an accomplice, and has the leisure of beginning an attack at his or her leisure. The victim, to respond with self-defense, no matter how well he or she is trained, has to play catch-up. A common ruse of predators is to engage the victim in an "interview" which is a very dynamic, not static, process. The interview interaction serves two purposes: to screen out certain types of people, yes, but also - and I would argue, potentially more importantly - to distract the potential victim and allow the use of a ruse, e.g. pincer attack, close the distance unnoticed, cognitive lag due to task load, etc.

More info about the interview and potential strategies to thwart it found here courtesy of SouthNarc: http://www.google.com/search?q=mana...s=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a

One of the main problems of OC is that it gives clever predators more information to distract you with, and if the predator calls your bluff, it increases initiative deficit and turns your focus more to protecting your gun.
NavyLCDR said:
Relying upon the element of surprise, you are betting the you will be able to get your gun out of concealment and effectively fire at the criminal before they notice you doing so. It's like playing wild west quick draw. Is that what you really want to hope for? ESPECIALLY since you will be drawing your firearm in response to an attack that has already begun?

This exact same scenario can happen with an open weapon, too. In that case we can grant that it would be worse. You seem to be assuming here an openly carried weapon will always deter attacks, and I again ask: where's the data?

I also put it to you that you are misrepresenting the argument against OC on tactical premises. "Element of surprise" is a clumsy way of saying "not giving potential attackers any more information than they already have." If we view it that way, a lack of information about you for your potential attacker is an advantage in the case of uneven initiative, ploys, etc.

The fact is there are plenty of criminals who aren't afraid of guns or don't think you would use it. In fact in the above quote you sound pret-ty darn sure you AREN'T going to use it. I believe that would be obvious to someone approaching you.
NavyLCDR said:
Why would I take the chance to put my family through the trauma of the attack, seeing me shoot at someone, possibly killing them, and then the expense and process of a possible court case, either criminal or civil?
So don't carry a gun at all. You simply have more options with a concealed than open.

NavyLCDR said:
With open carry, I have a CHANCE of deterring the attack from ever happening. With concealed carry, I have ZERO chance of deterring the attack; concealed carry only allows me to defend my family AFTER the attack has already happened, which means the criminal ALREADY has gained the upper hand. So, why would I willingly give up the deterrence factor?

And here we have the MOST flawed assumption of all, that there is NO way to deter an attack other than posturing. Again, the attack process is not a static D&D style roll of the dice. It's a dynamic process. You are projecting your absolute lack of tactician-skills onto everyone else, which is an inherently bad assumption. Disrupting the attacker's OODA loop, which can not be done through static posturing such as being muscular, showing a gun, etc, would be a much more effective means of thwarting an attack. At least, if the concept of the OODA loop is valid, and the training I've had -which entails extreme pressure-testing of these concepts - was not pure fantasy - then I'm right.

I have yet to see anything - data, experience, or anything other than conjecture - that supports your assumptions. I see a lot that refutes them.
 
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To save anyone time who thinks I'm "anti-OC," I'm not. If you like it, cool. Great. There may even be situations for certain people where it is better or equally good.

Do what you want. But I agree with previous posters that most arguments pro-OC from a tactical standpoint are simply rationalizations made to avoid cognitive dissonance. "I want to do this, so I'm going to argue that it's not a bad idea sometimes."
 
Its pretty simple.

If your situation meets the the legal requirements for the use of lethal force, use it. If not, don't.

What is not to understand?
What I don't understand is what actions one will take when a tuffy confronts an OC with the premise of taking the weapon. The weapon is a liability unless one has the training to defend oneself from physical attack by a tuffy. To tell a young man, presumedly inexperienced, to carry a weapon in public is just plain callous, the kid will get the crap beat out of him if lucky and possibly killed for his expression of 2A rights. Call it ridiculous but I will never advise a person to carry a weapon openly for S/D without the proper training one needs to defend the weapon.
 
I've worn speedos, and let me tell you, its something you never really get super comfortable with. I mean sure, as the day goes on, it becomes less awkward, but each new day of wearing them, the discomfort is right there all over again.

I'd imagine OC is similar. And I strongly agree with Hossfly. Wearing a gun openly sure works as a statement of support for 2A, but it can also serve as a target on your back for criminals. Consider the following purely hypothetical scenario:

You have a concealed gun and intend to become an active shooter. You see a guy open-carrying. Do you:

A. Decide not to start shooting like a maniac? or
B. Simply designate a new first target?


Nuff said?

If you want to make a statement, and I commend you for your enthusiasm, join the NRA, pay for a CCW, and take a proactive approach to sharing your pro-2A views verbally.
 
ringolevio said:
Well, Skribs, I can see that any attempt by me, or the few other voices of reason here, to make you reconsider your decision about OC constitutes an exercise in futility, especially when you are getting so much unwise advice here supporting your decision.

I'm sure you could probably be more condenscending if you really tried hard.
 
1. Black Panthers did it solely to intimidate Police officers, they didn't do it to further our cause and did it for the opposite.
Exactly, I agree entirely, and was what I was trying to get across. The "jerk factor" involves people that open carry for the express purpose of being intimidating, be it the Black Panthers or just some guy that puts a big gun on his hip for all to see with chin up and chest puffed so people will show respect.

Carrying an IWB or heck even in a little dorky fanny pack removes that intentional intimidation factor that jerks are so attracted to.
2. The element of determent is better than suprise. Its better to keep something from happening then try to change something after something has gone wrong. Would you rather keep the pipe from leaking before it starts or stop it when it starts pouring water out?
I agree completely, which is why I mentioned that with concealed carry, you still have the option to remain a "sheep" and not escalate the situation. Walk up to a robbery in progress at the front of the gas station though flashing a gun, and the crackhead robbing the place is likely to panic so you better pull it.
3. Criminals like to case their victim before they strike, they would wait till they are gone first. One robbery of a waffle shop was cancelled when two people went in to case the place and two of the patrons were open carrying 1911s.
While I'm sure that scenario exists, especially in this economy there are simply a lot of drug addicts that have run out of money and resort to armed robbery out of desperation. A gander on youtube shows how idiotic many of these thugs are, so I think you may be overestimating criminal's intellect, patience, and professionalism.
4. I study people, I watch them all the time. Pretty much 95% of people when you make eye contact with them, instantly look in a different direction.
Hmm, perhaps Texans are friendlier, but people usually smile at me and say "Hi" or "Good morning". If I had a big glock glued to the right of my waist dangling by my hand, I imagine that many would be avoiding eye contact, as firearms make a good percentage of the country feel uncomfortable depending on the context of the environment (gun show, no biggie... but walking towards the bleachers with a bunch of people at a soccer game, and see the concern in some mothers eyes).
If you want to make a statement, and I commend you for your enthusiasm, join the NRA, pay for a CCW, and take a proactive approach to sharing your pro-2A views verbally.
This is excellent advice IMO, and people that are currently intimidated by firearms are a lot more open to words than the present visual right in front of them. Out of sight, out of mind, and not something they feel motivated to demand legislative changes against. That is the main reason I think that all that the scary looking black "assault rifles" have stupid laws set against them whereas similar guns with a pretty wood frame go unnoticed.
 
Conwict: Have you ever read this? http://jpfo.org/filegen-n-z/ragingagainstselfdefense.htm

You can read it as you will, but if you understand what is being said, you will see the arguments brought up, fit OC and CC.

Now, If you want, I can give you a reason to OC that was told to me many years ago, or not. You see, well before the GCA 1968, (in the 50's) there was a saying, about concealed carry,..."honest men carry honestly" I have nothing to hide, why should I hide my weapon? You know, things like that stick with you, and I OC (except in winter when my coat will cover the holster.) because I am an honest man.

I am old, and I am very happy with the idea that my visible weapon may prevent a BG from trying to make me a victim, just by it's being visible. I am not afraid to OC,,,,,I have never had a bad police encounter (in over 40 years of OC), I have had very few negative civilian encounters, and many positive encounters (including very positive (maybe the most positive) encounters with foreign tourists from countries that seriously restrict a citizens RTBA) I prefer to think that I am educating the public, just as I was educated so many years ago (1970) by a person that was OC an old Colt SA, He said, perfectly legal in WA, all you have to do is strap on your holster to be able to protect yourself and others. No "permit" required.

I know, in some states (TX and FL etc) you have no choice you cannot OC. In WI (untill 1 November) you cannot legally conceal. That is unfortunate, choice is important. If you wish to conceal, and you are doing it legally, that is totally fine with me. But I will also state, you are not educating anyone on the Right to bear arms when they have no idea that you even CAN carry.
 
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I agree with Ringo, NavyLCDR, and not to be intentionally rude.

I don't see a single benefit to OC over CCW - aside from comfort, probably the least important thing to consider; but there are plenty of potential benefits for CCW over OC. Therefore, OC is a poor choice.
 
What I don't understand is what actions one will take when a tuffy confronts an OC with the premise of taking the weapon.
That is a felony assault.

You shoot 'em.





To tell a young man, presumedly inexperienced, to carry a weapon in public is just plain callous, the kid will get the crap beat out of him if lucky and possibly killed for his expression of 2A rights.

The "kid" is a 23 year old adult, a fully franchised citizen the equal of any other in legal standing and responsibility.

You say that he "will" be assaulted for being armed.:rolleyes:

Strangely, this hasn't happened to any of the dozens of open carriers I know.
 
To tell a young man, presumedly inexperienced, to carry a weapon in public is just plain callous, the kid will get the crap beat out of him if lucky and possibly killed for his expression of 2A rights.

Because some people just can't wait to see someone carrying a gun just to attack him with fists and commit a felony.:rolleyes:

While I'm sure that scenario exists, especially in this economy there are simply a lot of drug addicts that have run out of money and resort to armed robbery out of desperation. A gander on youtube shows how idiotic many of these thugs are, so I think you may be overestimating criminal's intellect, patience, and professionalism.

That scenario happened. Once again, criminals are cowards and bullies. Do you ever see a 4th grader pick on another 4th grader thats just as big? Nope, they pick on smaller kids in lower grades, this happens with criminals too.

Hmm, perhaps Texans are friendlier, but people usually smile at me and say "Hi" or "Good morning". If I had a big glock glued to the right of my waist dangling by my hand, I imagine that many would be avoiding eye contact, as firearms make a good percentage of the country feel uncomfortable depending on the context of the environment (gun show, no biggie... but walking towards the bleachers with a bunch of people at a soccer game, and see the concern in some mothers eyes).

I hardly ever carry a gun since the Local Police Chief likes to make his own rules so I'm restricted to Open Carry if anything, even then I hardly carry. This lack of eye contact is normal for anyone, at least in the bigger towns/cities.
 
Oh, cool, are you a behaviorist? A psychologist? Criminologist? Got any citations?

I've got a degree in Sociology with an emphasis on criminal behavior from a crappy public university, does that count? (go hilltoppers)


In general, an individual being a credible, lethal threat to a deviant pretty much removes that individual from the list of acceptable victims for most crimes since the risk to benefit ratio isn't in the favor of the deviant.

I can send you a heap of journal articles on the subject if you want, but it won't be fun reading though the concept of victim precipitation is fascinating.
 
PreMod70: I have had one encounter where I was happy I was wearing a OC firearm. It was a road rage incident years ago. Two lane road...There was a Jeep that was wildly "pushing" me as I drove down the road at the speedlimit.

I pulled over to let this crazy driver pass andhe pulled in behind me, jumped out of his Jeep yelling and screaming at me on how I cut him off??? (On a two lane road????) Anyway he wanted me to step out and fight (much younger and in better shape). I declined, and as I was proceding to drive away he opens my door, and reaches in to pull me out of the car.

That is when (I assume) he saw my holstered Colt, as he very suddenly decided that pulling me out of my car might not be that good of an idea. He backed away rather rapidly, got in his Jeep, and left just as fast as it could go.

Pistol never left the holster.
 
Next ask her when was the last time she heard of a LEO getting robbed while on duty.

One has to look no further than this site to see in 2011, 49 were killed by gunfire, 1 stabbed, 4 Assault and 7 vehicular assault.

...and that has naught to do with the frequency with which on duty LEOs who are open carrying a firearm are robbed.
 
The truth of the matter is that anyone who says concealed carry is better 100% of the time is a fool. The person who says that open carry is better 100% of the time is a fool. It all depends upon location, situation and the person carrying the gun.

We, as gun owners, should simply present the facts, statistics, research and opinions; let the person decide for themselves; AND QUIT BERATING OTHERS or judging them for their decision.

There is nothing wrong with concealed carry. For some people, in some locations, and in some situations it is the wiser of the choices. I conceal carry sometimes.

The only issue I have is when people present opinions and attempt to pass those opinions off as fact, when there is no real world evidence to support that opinion; and people who refuse to acknowledge any benefit of open carry anywhere for anyone.
 
Conwict, I think the whole "57% of criminals agree they are more scared of an armed victim than a police officer" (linked in Navy's first post in this thread) is a good indication that most criminals do not want to pick a fight with an OCer.

Some people are bringing up a couple of different positions, though:

The whole "tough guy" who wants to pick a fight with an OCer for street cred, or just to taunt the OCer and see what will happen. This would be a test for me to see how I would react, and seems to me to be a perfect opportunity to explain to the individual that there is a comfort zone s/he should not violate and to back off. I've spent enough time playing video games on the internet to not respond solely to taunts, and am smart enough to only use my weapon if I actually fear for my life or limb.
It still is a risk, but based on the places I generally frequent and my demeanor, I don't see this as being a big risk.

The other is the violent criminal who is going to start shooting anyway, and seeing me OC means I will be the first target. Of course, if more people OC'd, he'd have a hard time picking targets and would probably back away. If I'm the only person there, there's still a good chance that the criminal won't see that I have a gun until I'm able to draw. If I'm in a crowded store, around the aisle corner at 7-11, sitting down in a booth at a restaraunt, etc. then he probably won't see it. Spree shootings are going to occur in a target-rich environment, so there are a lot of obstacles to block view.

I'm kind of rambling, but that's just what I see.

ETA: This reminds me of a politics class I took, where one of the decisions we covered basically went like this: The Republicans think People are A so they will do B, so the policy should be C. The Democrats think people are X so they will do Y, so the policy should be Z. If A is true, C is the best course. If X is true, Z is the right course. Because A and X make sense from the perspective of the individual and B-C or Y-Z would be the correct thing to do in the case of their respective scenario, both sides are right for their proposed condition. (That doesn't apply to all policies, but I think it does to some). In the end, they can argue all they want, but barely anyone will change their mind.
 
The truth of the matter is that anyone who says concealed carry is better 100% of the time is a fool. The person who says that open carry is better 100% of the time is a fool.
I agree wholeheartedly. My problem is that there are numerous potential benefits that only apply to concealed-carry, but virtually zero benefits (potential or otherwise) that only apply to open-carry. Therefore, advising someone to OC, or even encouraging someone who's already considering it is a pretty irresponsible move, imo.
 
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Man, you're 23 ( so am I btw ), you live in Washington state and you know who Larry the Cable Guy is... But not Johnny Cash? Come on, man! Ring of Fire, Walk the Line, etc... The man even mentions Ellensburg in "I've been everywhere" No wonder you feel you need to OC!

Sorry, had to flip you some crap over that :p


Anyway, I just wanted to comment on one thing was a Washington citizen... I pay attention to what people carry. I've seen people carrying around pocket knives and check out what brand they are, and whenever I see someone with a pistol I kind of want to ask them what kind it is--but I learned when I was a kid that's not exactly "polite" and doesn't put people in a good mood. I think a lot of people notice stuff like this, but just don't say anything.

Anyway, I have no feeling about CC vs OC... Personally I agree with Ringolevino, just speaking for myself personally, I'd like to pretend, "Oh, I'd only pull if I'd have to," but I've gotten into a lot of fights I should have walked away from.

I will say one thing though, about criminals in Washington... If you're dealing with meth addicts or gang members, take logic and throw it out of the window. Around here they target rural property owners specifically to look for firearms, despite the fact that they're often held there by armed neighbors until police come, and at times even shot by the property owners when they come home. Yet they'll still take the risk because you can cruise through a rural area, break into a handful of houses and throw a few thousand dollars worth of guns into your car and drive away before the cops can even get there. They'll take the gamble
 
Bobson said:
but virtually zero benefits (potential or otherwise) that only apply to open-carry.

Once again, facts, statistics, research, and history prove otherwise, but those with closed minds will never admit that other possibilities exist other than their own opinions.

"The fact that an opinion has been widely held is no evidence whatever
that it is not utterly absurd; indeed in view of the silliness of the
majority of mankind, a widespread belief is more likely to be foolish
than sensible." - Bertrand Russell

"Only a fool of a scientist would dismiss the evidence and reports
in front of him and substitute his own beliefs in their place."
- Paul Kurtz
 
oc or not to oc

yes I agree with Ringolevio the art of suprise is not to be sneard at. When I lived in Florida I asked a Officer of the law about oc as there was no law against it , he agreed but also said they would more than likely take the weapon from you and call it i believe it was for your saftey to keep someone from taking your weapon and using it against you, thats one reason to not advertise all your business. but then again each to thier own also before I forget that was 30 years ago
 
Once again, facts, statistics, research, and history prove otherwise, but those with closed minds will never admit that other possibilities exist other than their own opinions.
Anyone can say "history says otherwise herp durp," and then finish off with meaningless quotes about foolishness, but it doesn't help prove your point.

If you really believe OC is superior, in any situation, specifically explain just one actual benefit that's exclusive to OC (EG, it applies to OC, and does not apply to concealed-carry).

I'm willing to believe a situation exists in which OC is superior to concealed-carry, but I can't think of it. That being said, you should supply it for me, because you're the one advocating it. Saying "history has proved me wrong" is not an argument.
 
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I read part of the argument over open carry and skipped to the end to actually answer your question :/
$.02
I think you should wait until you move out so as not to upset your mother. I think she is emotionally invested in the argument and might be hard to reason with.
 
Posted to Sam Cade:

I know of accounts where LEO's were stripped of their weapon so if a tuffy is properly liquored up I doubt that an OCer is going to fare much better. Shoot a tuffy in NC over a weapon and the courts may take away your freedom, don't know about KY so enjoy your OC. I don't enjoy childing an individual but when it comes to guns one must take that responsibility very seriously and any 23 year old that asks me to persuade their mother to let them OC is never going to be boosted into making the mistake of their life by me. There are better ways for a young man to defend himself than walking around displaying a firearm and before brandishing one that person should know all the aspects of S/D and the wisdom of listening to his elders.
 
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