Well golly, kids...
I hardly know where to start.
Tam, there was no need to play the 'gender card' here. The only cartridge/gun I am aware of that was designed specifically for girls was the .40 S&W, anyhow.
But I digress... When going to a smaller gun like the Detonics you simply dangle your pinky daintily fom the bottom of the grip while holding it in the normal fashion. The reason they put the trigger down there on the bottom of the frame is because that is where your trigger finger naturally falls when you are holding the gun correctly. This applies to big guns, too. If you grab the 1911 too high, the slide/hammer will offer some remedial instruction on where your hand needs to be. John was correct in building these little 'reminder systems' into the pistol. It has simply become more fashionable (and profitable for the marketeers, who capitalize on fads doncha know?) to try and engineer around them- rather than to pay attention to them.
Big guns kick a little, no matter how or where you grab them. Get used to the recoil and it becomes a non-issue. My little 120-pound wife shoots a GI 1911 like she was born with it in her hands, and I have to watch her or she holds it too
low . The last time we had a WWII-era (Ithaca) 1911 around here the recoil bothered her so much she just about shot me outta reloads!
Shoot whatever you like, however you like. Leaves more normal guns for me.
And for whoever insinuated that you need front serrations to press-check a 1911? I don't think so. I was press-checking 1911's when Jimmy Carter was pretending to be president, and it was accomplished by simply hooking the thumb of the off-hand into the FRONT of the triggerguard, AWAY from the trigger, and pressing backward on the recoil spring plug with the index finger, enough to crack the slide open a bit. No voodoo here, just simple ergonomics taking advantage of the hands natural gripping strength, and a superbly ergonomic design. Of course, it won't work with those cool, tactical guide rod assemblies in your recoil spring- but guess what? You don't need them anyway. The gun works fine without them.
I believe the correct answer for 'hammer bite' when it does occur, is to check your grip and then bob the hammer if the problem persists. The standard Commander hammer has been around since the 50's, and solves this 'problem' altogether.
That's all the schoolhouse rock we have time for today... see you next week. BTW, wasn't it Al Gore who invented front serrations, anyway?