My favorite local shop is awesome (The Village Gun Store, Whitefield NH)....and overall I enjoy the Kittery Trading Post in Kittery ME as well for a bigger shop BUT...
During my last visit I went with two friends of mine. One is very clean cut, orderly, wears glasses (stereotype intellectual looking), is very slight and pleasant. The other is burly, tough, rough looking, crass, rude, and obnoxious.
As soon as we got to the firearm section (this place is huge) I INSTANTLY felt the "eyes" all over us. Guys from the next dept. over even came and "hung around" the firearm section. Ok....all well and good from a safety/security standpoint and I can certainly understand, but then it got downright OVERBEARING....being followed (NOT just my perception). My clean cut friend went one way....no problem, not followed, no questions asked. My other friend and I milled around the used handguns for a while and were asked NO LESS than five times "Can I help you".....even by the SAME GUY THREE TIMES!!! Each time my reply was "no thanks, I'm just looking".
I'm a pretty patient guy, so it takes alot for me to get "pushed" to that point, but I finally asked to speak to a manager. I had enough.
Oddly enough the manager admitted to me that we were "red flagged" as soon as we walked in because we were "suspicious looking", SPECIFICALLY mentioning my friend because he "looked like trouble". I was then given a $50.00 gift card for my trouble. I told the manager that, fifty bucks or not, they should be less overbearing, more "secretive" about the security there if they really wanted to strike a balance. I had intended to walk out with a brand new Kimber that day, but they lost my business on that one, at least for now........