Bobarino
member
Spaceman,
"the one that would let you die and let herself be raped rather than take control of her destiny as well as yours".
this does bug me a lot. half of me is old fashioned and thinks that since i am the man, my role is the protector. i will gladly die for her. the other half of me thinks, i help those that help themselves. the fact that she is unwilling to protect herself or me bugs me. i'm not sure what to do about that. i suppose the first step is to talk to her and tell her my thoughts and see how she responds.
the only similarities she shares with my mother is that she likes to keep a clean house. dear ol' mom is and EXTREME anti. she hates guns with a passion. my parents and the girlfriend went halves on the gunsafe for my b-day. mom is so anti gun that she didn't even want to get me a safe to keep them in. she thinks i shouldn't have them at all. it took dear ol' dad to tell her that, hey, he's gonna have 'em like it or not, might as well help him keep them safely locked up. she agreed eventually. her and my mom have very little in common. they get a long well enough, but they're never going to be buddies or anything. (thank goodness).
Bobby
"the one that would let you die and let herself be raped rather than take control of her destiny as well as yours".
this does bug me a lot. half of me is old fashioned and thinks that since i am the man, my role is the protector. i will gladly die for her. the other half of me thinks, i help those that help themselves. the fact that she is unwilling to protect herself or me bugs me. i'm not sure what to do about that. i suppose the first step is to talk to her and tell her my thoughts and see how she responds.
the only similarities she shares with my mother is that she likes to keep a clean house. dear ol' mom is and EXTREME anti. she hates guns with a passion. my parents and the girlfriend went halves on the gunsafe for my b-day. mom is so anti gun that she didn't even want to get me a safe to keep them in. she thinks i shouldn't have them at all. it took dear ol' dad to tell her that, hey, he's gonna have 'em like it or not, might as well help him keep them safely locked up. she agreed eventually. her and my mom have very little in common. they get a long well enough, but they're never going to be buddies or anything. (thank goodness).
Bobby