hapafish
I didn't say I
use those words. I said I had no problem with them. I personally don't use epithets to describe people by their race.
I worked at a company in Denver, CO as a temp. It was a short gig, about a month or so. I was designing the tool and parts boxes used in the teardown of 777 engines.
On my second day there, my boss (B) and his boss (J) and myself had to go out to DIA to the United Terminal hanger to get a measurement of a piece of tubing for the fuel system. On the way out, everything went just fine. I got the measurements and we started back.
This is at the time when O.J. was on trial and the radio had something about the trial. J says "Why don't they just hang that n----- and get it over with?" When we got back to the facility, which is federally secured, the guard at the gate, a Black man, was just walking back to the guardhouse from the main building. J says "Come on Satchmo, open the f---ing gate!"
When we got back in the building I got J aside and told him "I'm not into that kind of talk and I would appreciate if you didn't use it around me. I don't care if you do; but if you do it around me it will show a lack of respect for me." He says, "Yeah, I guess I should be more careful."
Nuf said; or so I thought.
Later in the week, Thursday, I had to go to another company in the Denver area where I had worked before and sign off my interest in the patent that had been filed for the product I designed. I took a late lunch break and B knew that I was going there to do this. I took about 45 minutes of my one-hour break before I got back. When I got back, the guy who hired me, a Black guy named JM called my office. He said "Jim. What's up?"
Now this was not your usual "what's up" but a "What in the Hell is going on?" what's up.
I said "Nothing".
He says "I've been told that you've been terminated."
I said "Not that I know of."
He says, "Come up and see me."
So I go up and he knows nothing about what's going on. I told him that I was still working away on the project. He told me to go back to my office and he will find out what is going on by calling my shop.
I go back to work but a few minutes later he calls me back upstairs. He says that my shop said that J had called and said that I was terminated for abandoning the jobsite. I said "I'm here so how can I have abandoned the jobsite?"
So he calls my shop and my contract agent, D, tells me that he has called my home and my wife doesn't know where I am either. He says that J called and said "Jim Peel has abandoned the jobsite and he's terminated" <click>
D tells me to get the Hell out of there, don't say s--- to anyone, just go home and call him when I get home.
So me and JM are talking a bit as I leave and I tell him what happened earlier in the week. He says "J and B were in the next office from me talking that s--- one day and they knew I was right there." I said "Why didn't you say 'Hey, you Honkeys, hold it down in there'?" He said he didn't want to start anything.
So I must have scared the s--- out of J as this was a federally secured facility and he was either afraid I would lodge a complaint or he just didn't want any "n----- lovers" working for him.
So, no, I don't use those terms and I have no problem asking people who do not to do so in my presence. If they continue to do so it merely shows a lack of respect for me but I never bring it up twice. Once should be enough.
As I said prior, I have been called racial epithets and I just let them roll off. I simply remove myself from that influence. You see, I don't want to associate with ignorant people.
But when it comes to their right to say these things, I have no complaint because it
IS their right to say those things. Now if you want to fly off the handle and bash some guy with a deadly weapon because you have no self control, that is your business and you will have to pay whatever consequence. Me, I just walk away.
Hope I have made this glaringly clear.
Fast becoming your least favorite Blue-eyed, Round-eyed Devil ...
J
PS. I did notice in your diatribe
In the meantime, you can mull over the suggestions. Oh and the rest of us can all embrace our new freedom from PC speech and refer to each other with great affection as Japs, Chinks, Gooks, Wops, Dagos, Kikes, Micks, Spics, *******, Ragheads, and everything else that morons over the centuries have come up with, since it is "unreasonable" for us to see any of this as a "problem."
that you completely left out Honkey, Cracker, Yakus, Blue-eyed Devil, Round Eye, Gavacho, Gringo, or Haole. I guess that Whites are the only prejudice people, huh?