cluttonfred, to elaborate on my vote, let me say this:
The Colt, being all-steel, was too heavy for pocket carry. I did not care for the blocky grips or the trigger. It's not on your short list, just saying.
The Taurus 85CH I never should have let get away. I shot that revolver very well. But, it was heavy.
You are on the right track with a DAO snubbie. Pull and shoot, no fine motor skills necessary under an adrenaline dump.
The S&Ws have NEVER given me any problems -- and I do not baby them. They sit uncleaned and sometimes unlubed for months, summer and winter, in an Uncle MIke's or a DeSantis Nemesis pocket holster (I am going to get two Robert Mika's one of these days!!). They ALWAYS go bang, rotate the cylinder, and eject the empties. I trust my life and the lives of my wife and children to these guns on a daily basis.
The 642 is light and small enough to carry everywhere, no excuses. There is one in my pocket right now, sitting by the fireplace. It went out to the coffee shop with me and to drive my daughter's friend home from a day visit. It is undetectable and very lightweight.
I carry 158-gr, LSWCHP+P. The recoil to me is not noticeable. I lift weights and do grip exercises (
www.ironmind.com), don't know if that makes a difference.
The CT grips are a godsend, IMO. Expensive, yes. Worth every penny. SHTF, draw you weapon, red dot on center mass, pull trigger, repeat. Simple.
Again, the RELIABILITY, compactness and lightweight make this the perfect EDC, in my book. I have been carrying and shooting them for a long, long time -- never any failures of ANY kind.
Again, two thumbs up to S&W 642/442 (no locks).
And, yes, I have taken several classes at the S&W Academy and have "got the t-shirt."