EXPVIDEO - "I think tossing the cuffs and telling him to put them on is a half-way decent plan. (cuffing him yourself, without training, could get you killed)."
Tossing your 'cuffs to the bad guy is an EXTREMELY BAD PLAN!
You've just thrown him a "deadly weapon."
You say, "Okay, Mr. Bad Guy, put these steel bracelets on and the police will soon arrive and cart you off to jail."
Suppose the b.g. just grins at you, dangles them off the tip of his little pinky, and says, "Stuff 'em where the sun don't shine, buddy."
Now what?? Suppose he just turns around and walks away, carrying your $35.00 handcuffs with him.
Are you gonna blast him with your firearm?? You are?? Just try and explain that one to the cops, the D.A., and then the Prosecuting Attorney at your trial.
"Well, your Honor, I gave him my handcuffs and told him to put them on and we'd wait for the police. He wouldn't put them on and started to walk out of the house so I shot him a few times." Hellooooooo, San Quentin!
As for physically taking a bad guy into custody, cops train to do it, but even so, many cops have been killed while wrestling around with a b. g. because they could NOT get the bracelets on him in time.
If you are not a cop, you'd damned sure better stay out of the b.g's. "kill zone," 'cause there are plenty of b.gs. out there who are ready, willing, and able to kill you if you'll just give them the opportunity ... and get within their "kill zone."
About the time you start wrestling around with a b.g., trying to put a pair of 'cuffs or zip ties, or rope on him, you're very likely to suddenly find yourself up to your A$$ in alligators.
As for dressing "kinda like" a cop... why do you think that real cops put on their uniforms and take them off at in the station locker room??? 'Cause they do NOT want to be identified out on the street as an off duty cop.
Just my take.
L.W.