waymor55:
IMO the Star BM is an excellent pistol. I purchased one last year, and it has been 100% reliable and very accurate. I have only shot ball ammo in it, but I've read where others shoot sjhp's and their BM's seem to feed them quite well.
If there is a downside to Stars it's that they are no longer made, so parts will start becoming hard to find. wwwgunparts.com still sells lots of parts, including the firing pin, (which apparently could fail if you dry fire the BM a great deal.)
I bought a b/u firing pin, but I doubt that I'll ever need it as I'm a believer in snap caps when dry firing any of my firearms. My Star BM apparently spent it's early days with the Spanish Guardia Civil.. Guess it was good enough for them..
Now, having said I love my Star BM, I would suggest you also consider the KelTec P11. The P11 is also a 9mm, but it's d/a, holds 10 (or 12 if you so desire) rounds of +p ammo, and is backed by a lifetime warranty. I paid $225 for mine, new, +tax. My P11 has been 100% reliable and quite accurate at self defense range. (for me 5-7 yards). Further out than that the Star is actually more accurate.
IMO either the Star BM, or the KelTec P11 would do the job for you. I have both, but I prefer the KT as my cc choice because it is lighter and offers more rounds of +p ammo.
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Just another option.
Best Wishes,
J. Pomeroy