street/bar fighting (loss of firearms result)
This is a pretty refreshing thread. Some of these self defense threads are simply boil down to "shoot perp" or "don't shoot perp", and everyone is talking about something they never have done and will probably never do in their whole lives (hopefully). That is the big difference with street fighting. As much as many of us vow our "fighting days are over", there is a much
higher chance of getting into physical combat than getting into a shoot out.
Couple of observations. I was impressed to hear guys admitting "yes I have lost a fight(s)". There is no quicker way to spot a fake than someone who claims "I've won every fight in my entire life since age 10, I haven't even been punched, EVER... etc etc."
If you have never gotten beat up, you've never been in a real fight.
Another thing I've noticed is usually, the most dangerous fighters (at the bar), the ones you really do not want to mess with, are the ones who say the least and have a long fuse. Meanwhile, the little guy who has had too many beers and is barking like a little dog, running his mouth... is the guy who can't fight at all, and expects you to either back down or for all his friends to jump you if you call his bluff. I'm sure some of you have seen this difference, especially out at bars.
Here is a quick story, and I would be interested to hear any comments or similar stories. This ties in directly to owning guns and fighting.
A buddy of mine was at a bar about a year ago with a girl. He is a gun enthusiast and hunter. To make a long story short,
"Billie the Townie" had too many drinks, began verbally harassing both my friend and his date. My friend is built like a tank, 240 lb mostly muscle, not sure what this guy was thinking. He was actually trying to get out of there and was saying "calm down, you really do not want to fight me... I'm serious". Unfortunately, he had to pay his tab at the bar, and as he is waiting, Billie the townie's "crew" is pumping him up, egging him on. At one point the guy keeps yelling "I'll f___ing kill you dude!" Oddly, bouncers are not doing anything.
Billie the Townie swings and misses, my friend clocks him, breaks his eye socket- Billie is down for the count. Chaos erupts, police arrive shortly.
When it’s all said and done, "Billie"
presses charges and plays "
victim" role. He says he was sucker punched out of no where. Sadly, the bouncer knew the guy and
lied to police, saying my friend swung first. His date was in the bathroom during incident and could not help verify the truth. I think this first and foremost reflects the risk in "winning a bar fight" these days.
The more disturbing part is this. Fast forward, DA says if he doesn’t plead guilty to
simple assault he will face
felony assault in court. He takes the plea, gets probation and a fine. Luckily he isn't sued. However, 12 months of probation starts up and he is
restricted from having any
weapons in his possession or around him. PO can drop by his house any time to inspect and search for guns. He owns about
15 guns. Worse, he was just about to go on a big family hunting trip out in Utah, which he couldn't go on. So he had to transfer all guns from his apartment to his father's house and for 12 months he will have to rely on a baseball bat in case a burglar kicks in the door.
I can understand if someone is convicted of a crime with a firearm- then it makes logical sense they shouldn't be allowed any guns, but I'm not sure if in this situation it makes sense to deprive a man of 2nd amendment rights over a bar fight.
Just a reminder what can be at stake when you defend yourself during a fight.
Anyone have any stories about a person being prosecuted for defending themselves during a bar fight? Any of you older members wish to compare and contrast the legal difference in getting in a bar fight in the 70s vs nowadays?