Like others have already said, just about all of the major firearms makers produce reliable and durable pistols.
You really can't go wrong with Glock, Sig, HK, CZ, FN, S&W, Springfield Armory, Beretta, Ruger, etc....especially if you go with one of their older more proven pistols instead of the newest ones, which lack a proven track record.
My personal choice:
Glock.
Here's why:
All pistols will eventually have parts wear out.
The more you shoot, the sooner those worn parts will need to be replaced.
One of the great things about Glocks is that they are extremely easy for anyone to work on.
In just a few minutes you can learn to completely detail strip a Glock and replace parts yourself.
And Glock parts are very easy to get, both factory and after-market parts, and are rather affordable as well.
Good luck and happy shooting,
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