I have not recently looked at the money spread, but I believe I have seen pie charts where most of the money spent by the Federal Government is going to Medicare, Medicade, and Social Security. Things like welfare, or National Defense, are not even equal, in expenditures, to any one of these programs. At least that is my recollection.
Just wait until you have a parent sick, or in 24 hours a day care. And wait till you see the costs. I do not know what the National Average is, but 24 hour a day care in a Nursing home is easily $4,000 a month. For a medium cost Nursing home. For most of the people in a Nursing home, the Government is picking up the cost. Now how many tax payers does it take to fund one person at $4,000 a month? And you will also be surprised to find that the prescription drug cost is probably a $1,000 a month.
These entitlement programs are expensive. And if they are not funded, well what are you going to do with Grandma, or Ma, just leave her out on an ice flow and hope a Polar Bear eats her? Just because you don't see these people at a mall or grocery does not mean they are not around. And the reason you don't see them at a mall or grocery store is because many are physically unable to walk, or mentally incapable of operating a remote control. That's why they require 24 hour a day care, someone has to change the diapers, and feed them, and watch over them.
Arguing over welfare to the illegals, or those who don't pay taxes (and corporations are the worst offendors in this particular) and their rights to vote, is all nice. But in terms of dollars, you are ignoring the elephant in the room.