Another vote for the 147 gr. JHP, specifically the Hornady XTP 147 JHP.
If you want the toughest 147 gr. JHP for your test, the Hornady XTP as loaded in either the TAP-FPD or the TAP-CQ SD loadings (and their standard ammunition line, too) would be hard to beat not only for it's toughness, (because it typically expands well while holding together with good penetration in gelatin after passing through automotive glass, 0.55"-0.57" expansion/ 12.00" depth, as it was designed to satisfy the FBI testing protocols) but also for it's inherent accuracy, too.
I think that the "heavy-for-caliber" bullets are the way to go in any caliber.
As for the "common rounds' to compare it against, one of the most well-established is the Federal 9BP 115 gr. JHP at 1160 f.p.s. and would serve as an excellent 'benchmark'. Another that would be an excellent comparison load would be the Gold Dot 124 gr. JHP +P at 1220 f.p.s. That would give you two other excellent rounds of the other commonly utilzed bullet weights in 9mm to compare the 147 XTP against.
G/S