...it makes me upset to see/hear people handle firearm while drinking...
Just like the thread title says. Do you carry after you've had a drink or two?
If you read the OPs question, it was: Do you
carry after you've had a drink or two?
Not: Do you
handle your firearm after you get fall-down drunk?
Not even: Do you
handle your firearm after a drink or two?
Do you carry?
I don't get fall-down drunk.
I can keep my gun in my pocket holster and have a couple of beers. So what?
If I'm in a circumstance where my license is in jeapordy for carrying at all (e.g., a bar in my state) that would be the limit.
If I'm at home, or spending the night with a friend (thus, no driving involved) I might have a couple more. So what?
I'm not handling my firearm under those circumstances with these two exceptions:
1.) If assaulted, I have every right to defend myself and will do so to the best of my ability regardless of state of mind. And I repeat...I don't get fall-down drunk.
2.) when done for the night, I will very carefully remove my firearm in its holster and set it on the night stand.
Common sense, moderation, the four rules...it's not that difficult. If those three things are not a part of your everyday consciousness to begin with...then perhaps you should re-think your relationship with both firearms and alcohol.