Loosedhorse said:My point is if profanity is generally acknowledged as the "part of the criminal vernacular", then is your use of it during a confrontation more likely to get witnesses to assume you're a criminal (or at least a co-agressor)?
My goal is not to persuade you to use profanity; that's your choice. I defer to Lee's post. Southnarc has the background and qualifications to make these statements - he's a primary source.
If a criminal is used to profanity, it doesn't mean he tolerates the use of profanity from strangers well. Just as you created a thread based entirely on someone using profanity at you, without any violence actually occurring, profanity tends to make an impression. If you are selected by a criminal as a potential target for a violent act, considerations of "what will others think" (as opposed to what does the law say) should be a distant second or third to good strategies and tactics, meaning strategies and tactics that work.
Here's a hint...if you are "selected" it's (likely but not for certain) because you appear to be a soft target in some way. If the process of victimization has a certain amount of momentum behind it, you need to aggressively persuade the criminal otherwise. That's where profanity potentially comes in.
I find your argument to be somewhat like someone advocating carrying a "friendly looking" revolver instead of a Glock because juries frown on black guns...or for that matter, saying you'd rather not use a gun at all, because shooting people is something criminals do.