I can't stand the RCBS seating stem adjustment, much prefer the Hornady and Redding seaters, even the Lee, although I'd like to have a locking ring.
I use Hornady and Forstner locking rings. Most of my "small batch" loading is done on a Forster Co-Ax, so a sufficiently large locking ring is necessary to key into the press.
I have Redding and Hornady for 458wm, and RCBS, Lee, Redding, & Hornady for 7mmRM. I prefer the Redding & Hornady out of those, and do most of my loading on the Reddings.
The Larry Willis Body die is worth buying for your 458wm. Generally the 7mm will loosen pockets fast enough you won't gain anything by bringing the body back, but if you run a lot of low to mid-range practice loads out of your 458, like most of us, you'll get enough loads out of the brass to make the body die worth it. If you DO get some bulge in your 7mm with some life left, then having the body die for your 458 will let you use it for the 7mm too, but I don't typically get enough life to need it.
Are you annealing? I anneal every loading in 7mm, more than doubles my case life.