Failure in Situational awareness

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Recently, while out on a run, I was approached by a homeless person. I saw him from a distance. When I came close to him, he asked for the time. As I was fiddling with my GPS watch, he took a step towards me, and when I looked up, he was practically on top of me.
Fortunately he did not have malicious intentions, but if he did, I was done. I was not carrying at the time, but even if I was, there was absolutely no time to react.

What could I have done differently to avoid this potentially hazardous situation?
 
Why did you knowingly get close to a homeless person?
Pretty much the most salient question to ask.....

Look - homeless folk, or anyone just kinda hanging around, generally don't ask for the time (or other such things) because they need the answer. It's a gambit to get you to stop and interact - the opening to the interview / selection process. If you're not interested and prepared to interact with them, then don't.
 
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Recently, while out on a run, I was approached by a homeless person. I saw him from a distance. When I came close to him, he asked for the time. As I was fiddling with my GPS watch, he took a step towards me, and when I looked up, he was practically on top of me.
Fortunately he did not have malicious intentions, but if he did, I was done. I was not carrying at the time, but even if I was, there was absolutely no time to react.

What could I have done differently to avoid this potentially hazardous situation?
I am sure you will get a good deal of great advice.

Me,all I got is "DUDE *** ? "

If you are that far up the river of denial,you might be too late to learn how to paddle OR swim.
 
Your mistake was putting pressure on yourself to feel any kind of social obligation to a complete stranger. No need to go out of your way for someone you will likely never see again and have no good reason to interact with, based on some notion of "politeness".

Not everyone is deserving of your time, no matter how they may feel about it.
 
I can't hear too well. So:
"Yeah, I like sausage too.''
[keeps on running]

Why would a hobo need to know the time? Lol.

I'm not always a hobo, but when I am, I only insulate my jacket with newspaper on the bottom half of the hour. Top half is always magazine shreds.
 
You guys are too harsh. Maybe dude needed the time because he had a job interview. Or a doctor's appointment, didn't wanna miss his free lunch at the shelter, whatever...
Not everyone is homeless because they lack work ethic or motivation. I've met a handful of homeless veterans that had physical and/or psychological ailments that just weren't functioning well as civilians.
Avoidance is best, just like any other self defense tactic. Don't run in areas known to be homeless hangouts.
Maintain space if you're outdoors (assuming you're not running inside) If you're cornered somewhere inside, that's a tough spot.
Unless it's someone you know well, don't take your eyes off anyone who's approaching you.
 
I guess I'm just a friendly person, and try to be accommodating to anyone I'm in a position to be helpful to IF I can do so with relative safety.

That one small thing you do for someone may be the difference in restored hope or complete hopelessness.
The failure in situational awareness wasn't in what you did, but how you did it.
 
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I guess I'm just a friendly person, and try to be accommodating to anyone I'm in a position to be helpful to IF I can do so with relative safety. And IF they don't insinuate I owe it to them. And IF I don't feel I'm being taken advantage of.
You are relying upon a lot of assumptions, and IF you are wrong, you will regret having gotten close.

Do you have the time? Do you have jumper cables? Can you help me get my car started?

Nope.

The Lakota had a saying: "Today is a good day to die".
 
Recently, while out on a run, I was approached by a homeless person....

What could I have done differently to avoid this potentially hazardous situation?

Good question. Without training, generally we act like modern people, thus focusing on a single task at hand with all or most of our senses, getting it done with great ability and efficiency. And in our modern careers and life singular focus serves us quite well.

My suggestion to maintain situational awareness is to watch a rugby or a soccer players’ eyes. In America we have middle linebackers in American football and short-stops with a runner on second base in baseball as examples. Their eyes are always moving, they are always listening and I can guarantee you they are thinking about multiple scenarios at once.

You need to practice this, always. At home and in the office, situational awareness won’t be as important for your safety, probably, but you will notice those worlds opening up to new observations as well.

You see, your eyes and mind focused on your watch in your example, because without practice, that’s what modern people do. After you practice some, you will have learned ... look down towards watch for a split second, look up at surroundings, repeat until you know the time...

Always watching, listening, smelling, thinking Hey is that dude closing the gap?

I like IDPA because I get to practice hand / eye coordination with a pistol. I hate IDPA because you can be really good at it with great hand / eye coordination and little else.

I like hunting because the hunting styles I use force me to use all of my senses while thinking about scenarios. Do you hunt?
 
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The only time piece I have, while out for a brisk-paced stroll, that occasionally breaks into a run, is an iPhone, and it is tucked away, out of sight. I do NOT need to know the time, and neither do those I may encounter. If someone ask me for the time, well, it is time for them to buy their own watch,

No need to be unfriendly. I can truly answer “Sorry, I don’t know.” ;) NEVER take your eyes off of anyone who asks about the time.

Or, just “No watch.” ;) Truth. NEVER take your eyes off of anyone who asks for the time.

When my knees were young enough to go for serious runs, iPhones did not yet exist. I ran for distance, not time. No watch necessary. No fit-bit, either; there are ways to know that one is in the aerobic-training zone, or has crossed the anaerobic theshold.
 
I guess I'm just a friendly person, and try to be accommodating to anyone I'm in a position to be helpful to IF I can do so with relative safety.

That one small thing you do for someone may be the difference in restored hope or complete hopelessness.
The failure in situational awareness wasn't in what you did, but how you did it.

I have no use for street rats. I deal with them every night at work. I see what they're like when they're not standing on the street corner trying to get you to give them money.

Around here they kill each other frequently. It never makes the news because they're homeless. I've had a few friends that were murdered by homeless people. I don't turn my back on them
 
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