The Benefits of FOF Training

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https://www.thetruthaboutguns.com/take-it-force-on-force-personal-defense-training-for-civilians/

This is an excellent review of FOF training.It should be a cautionary read so much of what we see on gun forums where the emphasis is on this gun or that, this round or that - with the standard being some square range group. Carry rotations, COS play choice of guns, Dunning-Kruger views of how you will win with a small gun that you don't practice with. True, many interactions have no shots fired or the bad person runs away. But what if they don't and it is an intense situation?

The article points out the FOF can sting. I can attest to that. Sims, paint balls (used realistically) or airsoft leave you bruised and break the skin. Surprise, you can miss the target. Surprise, here's a shooter you didn't know was there.

We know most people don't train at all and it works in the low intense scenario quite a bit. So what. Most doctor visits are low intensity. The doc pokes you a bit and gives you an Rx. It's when you drop dead or almost, that having some more intense training might be could.

With constitutional carry (a theoretical good thing from the rights point of view), will there be even less motivation to train? Probably. It's estimated that the number of competitors in the USA is maybe 38K. I never could get folks who babbled about equipment to train or compete. The most common cause is usual men think there are natural warriors and/or don't want to look stupid when they fail in some 'warrior' situation. Oh, well - that's it for today. Read the article and get out of it what you want, as you pocket your LCP or OC your BP revolver. BTW, as I said repeatedly, I do pocket carry at times due to circumstance but understand the limitations of the gun and put in the training time with it.
 
Nice. Hits on the value of all the basics that the motoring public might not realize are there to be known.

A properly structured and supervised FoF session will get your blood pumping.

It will also help to illustrate and reinforce all the right things that have been ingrained by previous good training, and point out any inadequacies in training, bad habits, lack of awareness, etc. Humbling, and yet exhilarating.
 
First, we should realize that
  • The defensive use of a firearm >> shooting a gun,
  • "Going shooting" =/= developing the skills necessary for self defense, and
  • Carrying a gun =/= preparedness.
The first step in skill development is, of course, learning to shoot--to shoot with combat accuracy, with an appropriate balance of speed and precision, at realistic distances. Beyond that lies good, realistic defensive pistol training. Drills in a multi-sided laser simulator can add to the mix.

Then comes the FoF regime discussed in the OP.

The farther we can travel on that path, the better off we will be.

This can amount to a significant investment in time and money, but a violent attack is not the time to learn new skills.
 
Nice little article. Good stuff.

Frankly, I'm getting tired of listening to folks who claim to religiously pack their favorite EDC handgun, yet continue making excuses for never getting training. And FoF is so useful, that if you've gone through some qualify FoF training, you immediately realize that those who've never done it, simply don't know what they don't know.

Going out to one's local pit, club or indoor range and punching holes in paper target may assist one in improving one's accuracy with a handgun, but it accomplishes next to nothing in preparing one for an actual gunfight.
 
For vast numbers of individuals whom are not military or law enforcement training is simply not a priority. For others training is a priority. Not everyone wants to be a warrior. Each to their own applies.
 
For vast numbers of individuals whom are not military or law enforcement training is simply not a priority. For others training is a priority. Not everyone wants to be a warrior. Each to their own applies.
So, basically... carry a handgun because it makes one feel safer, but have no idea how one will react in a dynamic situation where one's life (or the life of another) may be in dire jeopardy. Got it.

It has nothing to do with wanting to be a warrior. Just because one owns a fire extinguisher or two doesn't mean one wants to be a firefighter. But when the time comes, one better damn well know how it works in real life, not just in theory.
 
This is the part of the discussion where someone will post; “thousands, maybe millions of people with no training what so ever successfully defend themselves every year”

While that may be true, all it really means is that those people relied on luck and luck smiled on them that day. Make no mistake, luck plays a bigger factor then many like to admit. Plenty of highly trained people have been killed by untrained opponents. But none of those highly trained people would say their training was worthless if they could participate in an after action review.

No one rises to the occasion under stress, you default to your training. We endlessly discuss the best handgun, how many reloads to carry, what the best ammunition is. But for some reason training, outside of the the square range isn’t that popular a topic. And FoF seems to be one of the least popular topics here. I don’t know if it’s because quality FoF training is hard to come by or if part of it is ego, it is very humbling.
 
I'm actually starting to believe that a large part of it is... ego.

Seems an awful lot of folk in our community believe that having a gun on one's person is the key; many seem to subscribe to that notion
“thousands, maybe millions of people with no training what so ever successfully defend themselves every year”
and thus want to believe that training is an optional thing...

But some of us who've actually been in the doo-doo believe otherwise. I've never met a single soul in the military or law enforcement (or a civilian involved in a bad situation) who's said: "Gosh, I wish I'd had less training."

Appears many, though, would just as soon spend their hard-earned income on $75,000 trucks and SUVs, ATVs, boats, guns, gear, clothing, big-a$$ flat-screen HD TVs, I-Phone 37s (or whatever number they're up to now), anything tangible but little that improves their personal capabilities for survival (and this goes for prepping as well).
 
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The article ranks among the best I have read in a long time during which much published conceptual advice has been alarmingly not well thought out and poorly written. It was truly a pleasure to see a published article of such high caliber. Right is right, and the author is right.

I would have benefited from such simulated FOF training in Nam. Back then there was no technology for simulating such combat. We shot blanks at imaginary enemy forces. It accustomed us to the noise and helped damage our hearing as we had no hearing protection. Still it had some limited value, because it prepared you to deal with not being able to hear commands, warnings, etc while shooting it out with opponents. Training prepares one even if only in limited ways.

However the reality is that most gun owners will not have the benefit of FOF training because it is not readily available in all locales, and it could be unaffordable for some or many in terms of time and/or money. The other limiter is physical condition. I am 79, in good health, but I have arthritis in both hands and two damaged/inoperable rotator cuffs. I could not get through FOF training without a lot of discomfort and residual pain as I waited for the inflammation to subside. So what is my alternative? It is to heed the advice every Marine gets: “follow your training.” While my training is now 60 years past, it still applies, and so I rely on it.

Master sergeant Post served in the infantry in WW 2 and Korea. He had two Purple Hearts and two Bronze Stars. That was reassuring because we knew he had the experience to train us. In his words this is what he told us. “In close-quarter-combat there are three vital attributes: speed, accuracy, and capacity.” He said that those were in order of importance, and then he gave us his reasons for the statement. I am now paraphrasing his comments.

Speed is critical because you have to shoot before the enemy or maybe get shot. It is initially more important than accuracy. Getting a shot or two off quickly can momentarily disorient you opponent.

Accuracy is critical because you cannot hurt them unless you hit them so so a less accurate but fast first shot(s) must be almost instantly followed by well placed multiple shots. He used to say “soot them until they fall down. Then shoot them again.”

Capacity provides options. The most important of which are two: fighting multiple opponents, and providing your own cover fire in what we called shooting and scooting. As a combat photographer my primary weapon was a M1911. I would have preferred to have the then non-existent M9. Capacity is why I switched my EDC from LC9S to Security 9 Compact with 15 round magazine plus a spare. In today’s’ deteriorating world I think the possibility of encountering multiple opponents is growing. Therefore my tactical thinking has changed so has my training. I now go to the range twice a month, and I work on speed and accuracy in thirty-one round exercises. New challenges met with old training.
 
I certainly hear you about physical problems. There are awesome H2H classes out there that I cannot risk anymore. Besides my health, I have to take care of someone else and can't risk being significantly out of action or perhaps seriously down for the count.

Personally, after lots of FOF, I shoot IDPA and USPSA competitions. I shoot them sedately as I cannot run. I avoid stages on my knees or weird contortions. I'll take the penalty. However, I get practice drawing and shooting at various distances and reloading, etc. I'm not into chasing milliseconds.

I would like to do more, but time has taken its due. I'm glad I did what I did when I could. Perhaps, a good take away from the article is do what you can, when you can.

Money is a problem I grant you. However, if you can buy a $600 gun for the 'rotation', you could find a two day class for at least an intro to the concepts.
 
In addition to avoiding ambush, not shooting an innocent is extremely important. That's partly a matter of knowing what is behind your target and seeing who might move in front of it. But avoiding mistakes is also critical.

Good training will include shoot/no-shoot exercises.
 
https://www.thetruthaboutguns.com/take-it-force-on-force-personal-defense-training-for-civilians/

This is an excellent review of FOF training.It should be a cautionary read so much of what we see on gun forums where the emphasis is on this gun or that, this round or that - with the standard being some square range group. Carry rotations, COS play choice of guns, Dunning-Kruger views of how you will win with a small gun that you don't practice with. True, many interactions have no shots fired or the bad person runs away. But what if they don't and it is an intense situation?

The article points out the FOF can sting. I can attest to that. Sims, paint balls (used realistically) or airsoft leave you bruised and break the skin. Surprise, you can miss the target. Surprise, here's a shooter you didn't know was there.

We know most people don't train at all and it works in the low intense scenario quite a bit. So what. Most doctor visits are low intensity. The doc pokes you a bit and gives you an Rx. It's when you drop dead or almost, that having some more intense training might be could.

With constitutional carry (a theoretical good thing from the rights point of view), will there be even less motivation to train? Probably. It's estimated that the number of competitors in the USA is maybe 38K. I never could get folks who babbled about equipment to train or compete. The most common cause is usual men think there are natural warriors and/or don't want to look stupid when they fail in some 'warrior' situation. Oh, well - that's it for today. Read the article and get out of it what you want, as you pocket your LCP or OC your BP revolver. BTW, as I said repeatedly, I do pocket carry at times due to circumstance but understand the limitations of the gun and put in the training time with it.

I don’t train or FOF because I’m too ill. It was being ill and knowing I can’t run away from assaults that put the CCW idea in my head (that and moving from Cali to FL)

But thanks for your excellent thread.

I played Airsoft one single time, and just that was enough to teach me that target practice and gunfights are all but irrelevant to each other.

Also videos of cops emptying their mags on traffic stops gone bad, but connecting only once or twice.
 
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anyone know say the top 3 most likely FOF scenarios a civilian could run into? I have no idea what actual scenarios are likely, to be aware of. car jacking, road rage incident, someone pulls a firarms in a convenience store, altercation while out hicking or even walking in town/city possible. but, statistically speaking, what are the most valuable to think about and train for? anyone know? I don't.
 
anyone know say the top 3 most likely FOF scenarios a civilian could run into?
I assume that you mean "deadly force incident".

I have no idea what actual scenarios are likely, to be aware of. car jacking, road rage incident, someone pulls a firarms in a convenience store, altercation while out hicking or even walking in town/city possible.
First, let's dispense with road rage. Binging a gun into a traffic altercation is not a good idea at all.

Car jacking? Yes, that is becoming an issue. But realistically speaking, if one is accosted by violent criminal actors in or near one's automobile, it really does not matter whether the motive is to take the car, take one's wallet, kidnap a victim, or try the knock-out game. One's defensive reaction will not vary with motive.

What will drive the reaction is the approach. One will react differently to someone coming close and pretending to ask for jumper cables than to a surprise attack, or jumping into the car on the passenger side.

statistically speaking, what are the most valuable to think about and train for? anyone know? I don't.
Good FoF training will address any such scenario.
 
While the frequency of event is not really known, I can just relate the ones I've been in.

1. The robbery in a store/business of some kind. You can be a target or bystander.
2. The weird noise at night when you are home, or the kick in of your door
3. The nut in the street who accosts you
4. The rampage shooter - school, business, airport, courtroom, on the street
5. Bystander to a domestic
6. Coming home to an open house that shouldn't be open, or a house that you are visiting.
7. Various car scenarios: the hijacker, the nut comes up to your car, road rage - getting out of the car, staying the car, shooting from the car, into a car

All usually proceed with more than just the shooting, with scripted aftermaths of care for yourself, others, the law arrives, etc. Success in many is NO shots fired but avoidance of the conflict. Sometimes you are unarmed and just caught in the incident as in an NPE.

Fun nuances added - you don't know how many rounds you have. You are simulated to be naked in bed (wear a bedsheet with hole in it over your clothes). Dud rounds so your gun jams. Unarmed and have to find something. Hidden reserve bad guys so when you engage, surprise - there are more of them.

Can be live fire in 3D shoothouses with static or moving automated targets. Or with live opponents with paintball (obsolete now), sims or airsoft (which do hurt).

Other nuance, you get the drop on someone who just doesn't comply. That's for the folks who think they will hold someone at gunpoint. Find a room full of 'shot' rampage folks - offer first aid - well, surprise the shooter is still around.

Ego points: When you lose, do you complain it wasn't 'fair'. Do you learn from your mistakes in a humble manner (that is respected). Do you get some traumatic stress symptoms after the 'fight'. Not PTSD (that is a syndrome that occurs later, so the term is misused). But do you get discombobulated? Some have to be told to breathe again, gently disarmed of their sims guns and told this isn't real. It can be really stressful and flashback folks who have been in the real thing.

Last fun thing - explaining to wife why you are all bruised and scabbed up. You are too old for this! True. Explaining in a NPE, politically correct locker room why you are such. OMG! - you are a crazy!! Not fun, having to wear a brace thingee on your arm as you broke something.

This all from a civilian who wasn't in the service or law but wanted to progress beyond the 50 rounds at 7 yards, square range - training paradigm. Supplemented, BTW with competition to keep the technical gun skills in play.
 
One nuance, it's useful to be the bad gun in FOF. It gives you perspective on the defender's actions. Being a bad guy when the good guy was trying to 'clear' gave you insight into why that is bad idea unless you are truly skilled. Also, holding up a store and watching the good guy trying to sneak out his gun - why, bang, bang!

I was robbing a store. The good guy whacked me on the head (helmets on), so I fell to the ground and put a series of sims into his leg. Ouch, the referee told the store guy that didnt work well. Should he have complied?

Other the other hand I was a good guy in line behind the thief who shot the clerk. Well, I took him to the ground for an entangled pin of him. Oh, surprise, the bad guy had a friend who drew on me. I shot him, he missed me. One never knows. Too old for this now.
 
For those who have not yet taken the time to look into the subject, here's one little nuance about the real world that maybe useful to consider.

When we "go shooting" at the square range, we know where the target is, we plan to shoot at it, we position ourselves so we are facing it, and we are ready.

Contrast this with the real world. Go into your living room, or a constructed facsimile thereof--one with more than one opening, and perhaps three--and sit down. Pick up a book, or the channel changer.

Cheat: put yourself in Condition Orange. You would be in that condition if you were paying for an FoF course, because that's why you are there. What about at home?

Cheat even more: have your loaded long arm at hand.

Now, have someone enter the room unexpectedly, quietly, and very quickly through one of the openings or another, by surprise.

...maybe one person from each of two openings.

Friends, or foes?

Do you shoot a neighbor inadvertently, a family member while trying to shoot an attacker, or are you killed?

I should think the importance of realistic training would be pretty clear.

That thought process tells me even more--about where my gun will be, and about how quickly I can swing around a long arm in close quarters.
 
Good topic.

We often hear, "We fight like we train" but if we don't train ... ;)

video of FOF training with Mike Seeklander and the company First Person Defender
End of video shows gun store being robbed by "bad guys" with pistols (That we can see, may be there is spotter/get away driver that we can't see).

Once "good guy" starts shooting, after 10 rounds slide locks and he is out of rounds but the two bad guys are still holding pistols and on their feet moving around. Unless good guy has spare magazine that he can reload quickly, he is toast.

This is "lethal pause" that Federal District Judge Benitez pointed out in Duncan v Becerra where gun owner can be killed because he was limited by 10 round magazine capacity.
 
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