What CeeTee said....
Don't give 'em the opening.
Don't remove manufacturer's safety devices.
Don't reduce the trigger pull.
Do indicate that any other mods you made (beavertails, sights, extended safety levers, grips, etc.) are for improved control (safety) and accuracy.
If the BG's family are trying to treat the situation like a lottery win, it's probably better to be shown as a skilled firearms owner than a trigger-happy amateur. 'Cause the BG's lawyers will try anything they think they can get away with.
Beware, too (Paranoid-R-Us), of being accused to being too good. "Why did you kill my client's 'good boy' when you could have just shot the gun from his hand?" Be prepared to hear stuff like this....
I agree that Mas gets carried away, but if he's only right once in a while, and that's when it's your turn in the barrel, it might be better to have listened to him.
Mas Ayoob will be on a webcast at Officer.com on the 13th:
http://www.officer.com/live/2005/ayoob/121305_promo.html
Might be worth a look....
(I have to remember to sign up....)
Regards,