Mandatory registration is fine, but having to wait for approval by an admin is silly.
Actually not - I just approved U, and unless I am asleep - people generally get approved immediately... And hour at most...
There is a reason for it, and many sites do it... U may not realize what a SPAMbot is. But my site, and tons of other sites get hit with spambots all day long. Automated programs that register as fake members and then post sex messages. I MUST approve everyone one by one. 1/2 the applied membership everyday are spambots. I have been making some progress in making it harder for them to register (I was getting 40-50+ spambots a day - there are less now).
But, if I didn't make approval mandatory - my entire site would be sex messages. One of two still slip thru every once in a while, and I have to deal with it after the fact. Even with e-mail confirmations, they were getting thru - as there were valid email addresses the Spambots were using. I approve people manually so I can ferrit out the Spambots thru ways I won't get into, to play my hand.
Locking the forum also helps a bit - with the forum open, spam programs can scan the site and monitor traffic better, and hit us worse. Also, we started locking the site on and off when we had 20,000 unique visitors a month but only 400 members. In practice, there can be TOO many lurkers.
There are lots of issues here that U do not always realize until you actually run a site. Trust me - we've looked at all sides of these issues. And, we are not doing these things just to be contrary or to make things difficult, or for no reason. There are actually even more reasons involved - I've just mentioned a few. So, everything is being done for a reasonable purpose.
I only hope you join if you are interested. And, I posted this thread to let FN fans know about is - not to argue the merits of technical aspects of the site.