No disrespect taken, nor intended. If I did offend you, and I apparently did, I sincerely apologize for having done so.
But with respect to 9mm, in my Speer # 10, they deliberately seated a bullet .030" deeper in a tested 28,00 cup load, pressures more than doubled @ 62,000 cup. This is why it's paramount with cartridges such as 9mm, to account for variances in press flex or olgive variation by seating to the longest oal the firearm will accept / function at by using the plunk test to find zero to the lands. And to start work ups from a safe, low charge from the tables. I don't have as much experience as you do, and I respect that, but I do have over 30 yrs. at reloading. But in that time I have yet to come across an AL firearm that was throated shorter than published oal's would allow for, thus I have always been successful with the above method of locating an appropriate oal in this respect.
And to reiterate an earlier reply I made, I completely understand what you are getting at, and it does make complete sense as well. But there are other factors, as have been discussed and outline by others here, that can and do impact pressures. This is why published oal's are a good safe and standardized reference point to utilize. If we could effectively and accurately measure how much of the projectile is inside the case, and with certainty, I'm certain our reloading books would function on that platform, but they don't.
Many of the books I have introduce the 9mm as being extremely sensitive to seating depth variances of as little as .010", so unless we have the expensive pressure testing equipment the manufacturer's use, we really shouldn't try to second guess or reinvent the standardized methods of determining appropriate seating depth measurement of "Cartridge Over All Length" at least not without an increased risk of a catastrophic event. And although I can and have thought of an accurate way to do it, it still requires taking an OAL measurement to determine such, which is very redundant in nature.
GS