This is the beauty of the .327: if it's too much for the lass, put some .32 H&R or .32 S&W Longs in it. She can find her comfort zone to practice with and when carrying she can step it up a bit to something a bit stronger.You might get a big surprise when you fire that baby. I have named my S&W 631 my loud mouth little friend. Oh yea, and if the wife is recoil sensitive she might shoot it once then shove that darn thing right back at you.