The "mild magnums" (i.e., medium-velocity loadings) are about as much as I can stand, even in a heavier, more hand-filling revolver like the Ruger SP101. These include but are not limited to the Federal 130-gr. "Personal Defense" Hydra-Shok, Winchester "white box" 110-gr. JHP, Remington Golden Saber, etc. Other loadings like the Speer Gold Dot have come out since then.