Probably overkill but I weigh each round afterwards
Just for fun, weigh a sample of your bullets. OK whats the spread on the weight of the bullets? say maybe 1gr, .5gr .3gr??
Weigh some empty brass, whats the spread on the weight of the cases? If it is the same Brand/lot of brass maybe not much spread, but some.
Mixed brass will be much more. ( will go out to my shed and weigh some in a bit and post my numbers)
Lets say 1gr on the brass (probably more but for my example this will work)
OK so you have 1gr on the bullets and 1gr on the brass. Your charge could be 2gr heavy and it might not show up on the loaded rounds.
Others may disagree but I don't think weighing loaded pistol ammo is going to help you find a over or under charge. In this case since your charge is 13.8gr you would most likely be able to spot a round with no powder.
If you were using a lighter charge say like 4gr of HP38 for example in you probably wouldn't even be able to tell if there was any powder in the case unless your bullets and cases were close to the same weight.
And of course the only way to tell would be to weigh a sample of each. A larger sample is better but I would say probably 10 of each will give you an idea of what I am talking about.
Also for fun please let us know the weights of your 10 samples.
I also am heavily considering the advice of having him do the reloading!
Good idea! Loan him a reloading manual to read.
Have him read and re-read the part about working up to MAX listed charges.
Help him and watch him, I would be temped to spot check what he is doing as well.
I would make it a point no loads outside of listed charges on your equipment.
EDIT:
When I said slight above that was a poor choice of words, the "slight" 2gr overcharge could very well be enough to cause serious problems. Removed slight.