A SIMPLE THANK YOU

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A buddy of mine sent me this. I am not sure where he got it from.

Last week, while traveling to Chicago on business, I noticed a Marine sergeant traveling with a folded flag, but did not put two and two together. After we’d boarded our flight, I turned to the sergeant, who’d been invited to sit in First Class (and was seated across from me), and inquired if he was heading home.

“No,” he responded.

“Heading out?” I asked.

“No. I’m escorting a soldier home.”

“Going to pick him up?”

“No. He is with me right now. He was killed in Iraq. I’m taking him home to his family.”

The realization of what he had been asked to do hit me like a punch to the gut. It was an honor for him. He told me that, although he didn’t know the soldier, he had delivered the news of his passing to the soldier’s family and felt as if he did know them after so many conversations in so few days. I turned back to him, extended my hand, and said, “Thank you. Thank you for doing what you do so my family and I can do what we do.”

Upon landing in Chicago the pilot stopped short of the gate and made the following announcement over the intercom.

“Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to note that we have had the honor of having Sergeant Steeley of theUnited States Marine Corps join us on this flight. He is escorting a fallen comrade back home to his family. I ask that you please remain in your seats when we open the forward door [so as to] allow Sergeant Steeley to deplane and receive his fellow soldier. We will then turn off the seat belt sign.”

Without a sound, all went as requested. I noticed the sergeant saluting the casket as it was brought off the plane, and his action made me realize that I am proud to be an American. So here’s a public thank-you to our military for doing what you do so we can live the way we do.

Stuart Margel, Washington, D.C.


These are separate, but related pictures................................................

Edit: "Sorry, I could not get the actual images to load".

Here are two pictures that were awarded first and second place at the
picture of the year international this year. Very very touching photos.


First Place

http://www.poyi.org/63/11/01.php

Todd Heisler The Rocky Mountain News
When 2nd Lt. James Cathey's body arrived at the Reno Airport, Marines climbed into the cargo hold of the plane and draped the flag over his casket as passengers watched the family gather on the tarmac. During the arrival of another Marine's casket last year at Denver International Airport, Major Steve Beck described the scene as one of the most powerful in the process: "See the people in the windows? They'll sit right there in the plane, watching those Marines. You gotta wonder what's going through their minds, knowing that they're on the plane that brought him home," he said. "They're going to remember being on that plane for the rest of their lives. They're going to remember bringing that Marine home. And they should."


Second Place

I gotta admit, this one got me a little.

http://www.poyi.org/63/11/02.php

Todd Heisler The Rocky Mountain News
The night before the burial of her husband's body, Katherine Cathey refused to leave the casket, asking to sleep next to his body for the last time. The Marines made a bed for her, tucking in the sheets below the flag. Before she fell asleep, she opened her laptop computer and played songs that reminded her of 'Cat,' and one of the Marines asked if she wanted them to continue standing watch as she slept. "I think it would be kind of nice if you! kept doing it," she said. "I think that's what he would have wanted."
 
Makes me proud to have such young people wearing the uniform. Not to mention the families. We ALL owe them our unending thanks and honor.
 
I'm not one to be easily moved but I did get something in my eye after
reading that and seeing those pictures. I'm glad to see others so moved,
it lets me know I'm in the right place

My heartfelt thanks to each and every one of them that serve.
 
Not to knock the story--it is a nice thought--but it is probably one of those stupid, made up e-mail chains that get forwarded to hell and gone again. I say that because there is no way that the Marine Sgt. would refer to the other Marine he is escorting home as a "soldier." It just isn't done folks...soldiers are Army...Marines are Marines...plain and simple.

Greg
 
Greater love hath no man, than he lay down his life for another. God Bless, and thank you for posting.
 
Very moving photo's. That second one got me.

Tarpley's got a point on the forwarded e-mail tho. A Marine would kick you square in the nads for calling him a soldier.
 
The story might have flaws, but the photo's certainly do not.

My heart goes out to the family and loved ones of Lt. Cathey. Such a tragedy, such a sacrifice.

My tears flowed when viewing the pictures of Lt. Cathey's remains being tended by fellow Marines in the airplane. Again when I saw the photo of his widow asleep by his casket, with a Marine watching over both her and her deceased husband.

It tugs at the heartstrings to see such photos, but it makes me proud to be an American, and proud to see the honor and respect shown the deceased Marine and his widow by his fellow warriors.

I just gave my son a hug as he left for college classes. I am so blessed that I can still do that.

I wish so much that Lt. Cathey's widow and family could still have the opportunity to do the same to their son, Lt. James Cathey.

J.Pomeroy
 
TexasSIGman, it's quite possible for there to have been several remarkably identical true stories such as this. Many commercial pilots are ex-military and likely to show this type of respect and require the passengers under his/her command to do the same.


Semper Fi
 
May God Bless our troops; Past, Present and Future. And for the civvies, a simple thank you does wonders for the morale of our troops.
 
Simple Thank You

I've made it policy, that whenever I see someone in a military uniform in a restaurant, to have the waiter or waitress to sneak their check and bring it to me, and to place a false check on the table, face down, with a note...
 
If you ever really want to make a millitary man (or woman) happy, use your frequent flyer miles to get 'em a seat in first class. When I used to fly a lot, if I saw someone in line in uniform, i'd try and use my miles to get 'em upgraded. While it's usually against policy, I have never been told no by the airlines.
 
I've made it policy, that whenever I see someone in a military uniform in a restaurant, to have the waiter or waitress to sneak their check and bring it to me, and to place a false check on the table, face down, with a note...
That's simply outstanding!
 
CACO duty

Casualty Assistance Calls Officer.....

it's been 10 years....but at Naval Submarine Base, New London, CT....myself and one other J.O. were the CACOs for the Sub Base. During the two years I was there, neither of us were required (privileged) to have to make a call.

What may not be obvious, is that your base/station might be the only military presence for miles around...so you might well be called upon to provide support and assistance for fallen members of the other services. So the Marine mentioned in the post, may truely have been escorting the remains of a fallen "soldier" …though it may be the story was recorded by one not familiar with such things (like the right way to pronounce “submariner”).

Here's the job description as best as I can remember it....

Always one on duty, 24/7 (in area and available to be called out....not on vacation or drunk at a party). Service Dress Blue pressed and ready to go… Survivors benefits package ready…

Duties include.....

Making the initial call to inform the family of the death of their loved one. (Sorry, no black sedan....for us a white mini-van.) Hopefully a chaplain would be available to go with you.....but you go, ASAP.....Chaplain or no. (It's hard to beet the media news .... bad show for survivors to hear it on T.V. …. they should hear it from you first).

Our very cursory training session instructed us to be prepared to stay as long as you can be of help/support.....all kinds of little things.....sitting with someone and holding their hand....making phone calls for them, to tell other family members....picking jr. up from school.....answering the door to chase away the press, sign for the UPS package, etc....stay at least until other family members, minister, etc....are on the scene.

Follow up duties.....help the survivors sift through a hole packet of insurance & benefits stuff, hopefully with an Ombudsmen.....just keeping in touch to help deal with many of the head aches associated with the "system". You may still be in contact with them weeks or months later.

As far as casket escort duty.....in this day and age, with all the nut cakes willing to advance their political views at any cost.....I know I'd appreciate my shipmates keeping tabs on my corpse/coffin. Don't think that Iraq is the only place where people are sick enough in the head to drag a body though the streets to emphasize there point. IT MUST NEVER HAPPEN HERE!!
 
CACO duty

Casualty Assistance Calls Officer.....

it's been 10 years....but at Naval Submarine Base, New London, CT....myself and one other J.O. were the CACOs for the Sub Base. During the two years I was there, neither of us were required (privileged) to have to make a call.

What may not be obvious, is that your base/station might be the only military presence for miles around...so you might well be called upon to provide support and assistance for fallen members of the other services. So the Marine mentioned in the post, may truely have been escorting the remains of a fallen "soldier" …though it may be the story was recorded by one not familiar with such things (like the right way to pronounce “submariner”).

Here's the job description as best as I can remember it....

Always one on duty (in area and available to be called out....not on vacation or drunk at a party). Service Dress Blue pressed and ready to go… Survivors benefits package ready…

Duties include.....

Making the initial call to inform the family of the death of their loved one. (Sorry, no black sedan....for us a white mini-van.) Hopefully a chaplain would be available to go with you.....but you go, ASAP.....Chaplain or no. (It's hard to beet the media news .... bad show for survivors to hear it on T.V. …. they should hear it from you first).

Our very cursory training session instructed us to be prepared to stay as long as you can be of help/support.....all kinds of little things.....sitting with someone and holding their hand....making phone calls for them, to tell other family members....answering the door to chase away the press, sign for the UPS package, etc....stay at least until other family members, minister, etc....are on the scene.

Follow up duties.....help the survivors sift through a hole packet of insurance & benefits stuff, hopefully with an Ombudsmen.....just keeping in touch to help deal with many of the head aches associated with the "system".

As far as casket escort duty.....in this day and age, with all the nut cakes willing to advance their political views at any cost.....I know I'd appreciate my shipmates keeping tabs on my corpse/coffin. Don't think that Iraq is the only place where people are sick enough in the head to drag a body though the streets to emphasize there point. IT MUST NEVER HAPPEN HEAR!!
 
This happened to me on plane ride home last year. The pilot announced that we should all remain seated while a member of the armed services (sorry, I don't remember what branch) deplaned because he was escorting a body.

One of the largest individuals I have ever seen stood up in uniform and started walking off the plane. Everyone clapped and a bunch of people shook his hand and said thanks as he walked down the aisle.
 
The pictures are very moving.

I'd prefer that folks submit first hand experiences like Waterhouse's, experiences only once removed from a known personal source or experiences recounted by a reputable news :rolleyes: source. I get scores of various forwarded emails with all sorts of good and bad news and most of them fail under a snopes check.
 
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SSN Vet, I stand corrected. You are right and now that you have cleared the cobwebs from my head I do seem to recall being told about this in the past. Maybe this is what was going on in the original post.

Greg
 
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