I bought a lever action winchester .44 mag rifle to still hunt deer .I have handloaded some 2400 and speer.240 gr. jacketed soft points , NOT THE GOLD DOTS .Are they to soft for deer? read on a nouther forum that they were to soft for deer and would loose ther jacket or spatter to easely if hit bone. but they shoot goodin my rifle . and what woud agood bullet to use?