Here's why it doesn't matter.
Everything affecting where the bullet goes is on the same side of the divide. That is, everything is on the upper. The rear sight, the front sight, the barrel, the chamber...everything that impacts accuracy is in one solid piece. The only way you'll get inaccuracy from the upper/lower slop is if you can feel the slop and see the sights shifting while you are aiming. Your cheek is pressed against the stock, which is part of the lower, so play can come into the equation there, but try it a few times and be honest about whether or not it does. I've shot ARs that have some play, but I've never noticed the play while obtaining the sight picture and breaking the shot, because you're gripping the gun and pressing the upper down against the lower. You tend to notice slop when the gun is being handled or moved around, not when you're locked in for a shot.
Mike