I think the main argument against pressure wave is from the 1911 .45ACP flag waving Jeff Cooper worshipers that can't see why the military wouldn't use the 1911 on the starship Enterprise. After all, phasers can't kill cause energy doesn't kill. It's mostly a superfluous academic debate, though. What they don't seem to understand, though, is in +P loads, the .45 had over 500 ft lbs of energy! Yeah, it's a good service caliber, but the gun is just too large for every day civilian carry.
In the real world, you carry as much as you can comfortably put up with 24/7. That's why I carry 9x19 and .38 special regularly and not .357 magnum or .45ACP. I don't feel I give much up in "stopping power", whatever that is, and I'll have the gun with me when needed. No, I don't carry a 1911 and sleep with it, hell no. It's 40 plus ounces, it's too big for a pocket, and it ain't much better than a 9x19 in a gun fight, I don't care what Jeff Cooper says. But, if you need to have some mythical reason to carry that beast, go ahead and knock yourself out. There are .44 magnums that don't weigh what a 1911 does. I don't carry one of them, either.
I just find the pressure wave stuff interesting as in terminal ballistics as in how it works. I do like the 9 better than a .380 because there's twice the energy there and both are easy to carry all day long in a pocket. But, I don't need a bigger gun and there aren't any TRUE pocket .45s, don't care much for the Kahr offering. Hell, many millions of cops and soldiers have carried the Smith and Wesson M&P .38 over the years and THAT with the old round nose load! Put a modern +P hollowpoint in a .38 and why do I need anything else, for self defense, anyway?