I'd recommend several manuals, not just one.
1. Lyman's 49th Reloading Handbook. - it has a very good "how-to" section - about 1/2 the book, the other half is loading data.
2. The ABCs of Reloading. No data, just how-to.
3. Lee's Modern Reloading has the widest array of data, but they just list bullet weight, not the bullet profile - or shape.
Yes it makes a difference if it's a Wadcutter or semi-wad cutter or RNFP, etc.