While none of your options would be my first choice, out of what you listed I'd have to go with the Beretta, but mainly because it is the only one on your list that I forsee myself buying in the next year or two.
SIGs, well, I go through phases. Sometimes I like them, other times, well to be polite I'll just say they don't do it for me.
Glock. I really have been trying for some time now to like them, but I can't. I hate the trigger and they just don't impress me generally. Sure, they have a reputation for reliability, but most decent autos do now. I probably will get one eventually, but it will be a more compact model. I really don't see the point of the 17. The 19 is smaller so it is more concealable and thus more suitable for a CCW gun, yet it is big enough for range use.
Berettas, they are reliable, they are modern classics (so are SIGs, I can't see anyone calling a Glock a classic with a straight face), they are beautiful, well made, etc. etc.
Now if you had an open field, one 9mm for every use a 9mm may be needed for (carry, training, games), I think a mid sized 9mm is the way to go. It is a little smaller for carry yet big enough for comfortable range use.
My main choices (in no paticular order):
-BHP, sure it is technically a full size, but they are quite compact and thin. IWB they should be fine.
-CZ 75 Compact, or better, the alloy P01/PCR
-SIG 239
-Beretta 92 Compact
-Kahr T9 (the new, bigger Kahr)
-Kahr P9 (one of the few small guns that is truely comfortable and accurate enough for a main range gun)
-S&W 908 (value series), 910 (value series), or 39**
-Taurus PT911
-if you must consider a Glock, the Glock 19