Recommend instead of buying a $2000 .45 having never shot, that you buy a $900 dan wesson and $1100 in ammo.
Or better yet an el-cheapo $400 springfield to pay your dues on.
Look around see what's out there, and buy the one that calls out to you, but keep it under $500 for a first 1911.
An old nork would be a great gun to learn on, but they are getting expensive since the 'import restriction'.
That being said, I own 2 dan wesson 1911s, both in 10mm, like 'em both.
The first one, a 5" razorback was NOT a reliability champion, and is quirky, needy and was sent back to DW less than 3 months after I took delivery.
The other, is prolly something more like what you're looking for.
A commander length slide mated to a full size frame, with an Ed Brown bobtail and nights.
Oh, and a new style external extractor, too.
I ordered it last may and got it in september '04.
It's been 100% reliable, very accurate, and the recoil is MUCH better than the 5" model.
Their accuracy testing is done in a ransom rest, so their 3/4" groups aren't going to happen, at least not without a LOT of focused practice.
Being from mich as well, I can say you will need to be 21 to buy a handgun from a FFL.
Private party, 18 will do, no form 4473, just go to the sheriff's office in your county of residence, and pick up a permit to purchase.
Pay $5, bring your driver's liscense, and bring that 3 part form to the seller.
Fill out all 3 forms, he tears off the top copy, and the bottom two go back to the sheriff's office with you and the gun, locked in a case, or otherwise disabled (Trigger lock, whatever.)
They do a NICS national background check, and after you sign 3 more forms, they give you 1 to keep with the gun, and you're on your merry way.
They also will give you a basic pistol safety questionnaire, a test, 2 brochures, (Safe storage, and basic pistol handling and laws.) and prolly a fw other brochures, like gun lock use, etc.
The first one I bought I was fingerprinted, they took a picture, and added me to a database. I'm pretty sure that doesn't happen anymore, that was many moons ago.
If you're local to grand rapids mich or whereabouts, I'd be happy to accompany you to the range to see if 1911s are for you, or not.