Hey all I have been in the market for a new gun for some time now and now that I have made up my mind I can't for the life of me figure if I want a .40 or a 9mm. I would love to have a .45 acp, but the grip is just too big for my girly hands. the .40 ammo is more available in my area, can't find 9mm, but 9mm is a little cheaper and you get more rnds in the magazine. What would y'all go after?