To answer ya question do this , prime a case with a 500 go outside chamber the primed case ,insert a new #2 pencil into the barrel ,point it up & drop the hammer.
Do the same with the 550.
Safety apperal as necassary !!
Next question.
I realize the response above is is sorta crazy, but until ya do this ya really can`t put the difference into respective !
The 9mm is a hi pressure round most(stock) pistols take a load close to max to operate reliably & so my answer is NO !! do as rfwobbly suggests go to starting loads & even then "starting" loads may do what your looking for