joshk-k
Member
Hi all!
I have a situation that I'd like some help with. I know that this has been discussed before, and I've searched and read relevant threads.
A few weeks ago, a woman I grew up with was murdered by her husband. They had happily dated for about seven years, had a truly loving, stable committed relationship, and had just been married three weeks prior.
Police found him naked in the park across the street at 4:30 AM and upon going to their house, found her dead of multiple gunshots. His cousin, who was an eyewitness, said that there was no conflict, no drama, no nothing, that the perp walked out of the room, came back with a gun and shot her. The working hypothesis is that he unintentionally drank spiked punch at a Halloween party. Just out of his mind. He's a wreck and has ruined his life, as well as her's obviously. It's a really tragic situation all around.
So my dad, who generally believes in more restrictive gun laws, but who also generally respects my views on the matter, has said that the episode has heightened his feelings about access to guns and his feeling that episodes like this would happen less often if there was less access. To some extent, I agree: I think that's a logical argument. But I am also trying to figure out ways to make the counter argument.
I've pointed out several things: The couple lived in a relatively rough part of town, a part where (even he agreed) it seems reasonable for a young couple to keep a gun in the house for protection. There is no evidence that there was ever any other incidents or reasons to believe that it might be inappropriate for this individual to have a gun. I pointed out that the finger of blame should be pointed towards whoever spiked the punch with drugs strong enough to put a man out of his mind. I reemphasized that, regardless of who's at fault, its illogical to assign blame to an inanimate object. I've also pointed out that, generally speaking, the big argument against gun control is that it restricts the freedoms of many because of the actions of a few.
It's a touchy, emotional subject in this case. It hit really close to our family and community. If anyone has any thoughts or insights that I should share with my dad, I would appreciate it.
Thanks,
Josh
I have a situation that I'd like some help with. I know that this has been discussed before, and I've searched and read relevant threads.
A few weeks ago, a woman I grew up with was murdered by her husband. They had happily dated for about seven years, had a truly loving, stable committed relationship, and had just been married three weeks prior.
Police found him naked in the park across the street at 4:30 AM and upon going to their house, found her dead of multiple gunshots. His cousin, who was an eyewitness, said that there was no conflict, no drama, no nothing, that the perp walked out of the room, came back with a gun and shot her. The working hypothesis is that he unintentionally drank spiked punch at a Halloween party. Just out of his mind. He's a wreck and has ruined his life, as well as her's obviously. It's a really tragic situation all around.
So my dad, who generally believes in more restrictive gun laws, but who also generally respects my views on the matter, has said that the episode has heightened his feelings about access to guns and his feeling that episodes like this would happen less often if there was less access. To some extent, I agree: I think that's a logical argument. But I am also trying to figure out ways to make the counter argument.
I've pointed out several things: The couple lived in a relatively rough part of town, a part where (even he agreed) it seems reasonable for a young couple to keep a gun in the house for protection. There is no evidence that there was ever any other incidents or reasons to believe that it might be inappropriate for this individual to have a gun. I pointed out that the finger of blame should be pointed towards whoever spiked the punch with drugs strong enough to put a man out of his mind. I reemphasized that, regardless of who's at fault, its illogical to assign blame to an inanimate object. I've also pointed out that, generally speaking, the big argument against gun control is that it restricts the freedoms of many because of the actions of a few.
It's a touchy, emotional subject in this case. It hit really close to our family and community. If anyone has any thoughts or insights that I should share with my dad, I would appreciate it.
Thanks,
Josh