soonerboomer
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I had an interesting email exchange with a friend I'd consider "Moderate" on the issues of firearms, self-defense, and 2A. My friend is an attractive, confident, and independent young professional woman in her mid-20's.
While not inner-city Detroit or Philly, she lives in an area of town that can be a bit rough at times. Over the past several days there's been a serial rapist in her neighborhood. The suspect was caught by police last night.
Anyway, it made me mad that this punk was in my friends neighborhood. So, I sent my friend an email offering to help her if she wanted to exercise her 2A right to bear arms. Here's a copy of our conversation. I'd be curious to hear your thoughts. I would also like to ask those inclined to be "colorful" in how they feel about people to please refrain from personally insulting or being disrespectful to my friend. Also note that we share a common faith, and this faith is referenced in the emails and is not an attempt to "preach" at anyone.
My Initial E-mail...
Jennifer,
I don't know where you are on this kinda thing (since our nation is quite polarized on the issue), but in my perspective you deal with threats to your safety by exercising your 2nd Amendment rights. Cops don't prevent crime, they only investigate it. Plainly spoken, violent crime either happens, or intended victims stop it.
So, if you ever wanna learn defensive shooting or secure a carry permit, let me know. I'd be happy to show you to ropes.
Her Reply...
Mark,
Thank you for the offer, and I'll keep it in my mind in case I do someday feel differently, but I think for now I'll pass. I did go out and buy some pepper spray, even though I've been anti-spray for a while now. I've also considering a scary looking dog with a mouthful of spiky things. It makes me angry that these measures are needed to protect myself.
Yes, I have to be careful. But I also think that fear breeds fear, and violence breeds violence. I *personally* feel that carrying a gun would imply a sense of distrust about my community. I would not impute that same feeling onto others however. Maybe it's just that I was raised in a place that simply wasn't dangerous.
I guess my opinion is that yes, I can deal with threats against my safety by defending myself (in whatever way that might be), but I can also deal with it by working to improve my community, and to improve my community, I can't be afraid of it.
Fear probably the most dangerous weapon.
My follow up email...
Jennifer,
Some good thoughts here. I totally agree that fear can be a real issue. And, if we foster fear it will keep us from loving our neighbor as Christ has sent us into the world to do. I see so many living in fear, whether its due to events in the neighborhood, issues of national security, or the failures in our current economy. Fear is everywhere!
As you've suggested, I have seen people who own firearms develop a fearful mindset. Some are even paranoid. However, this mindset can also exist in people depending on pepper spray, alarms, dogs, cops, deadbolts, tazers, baseball bats, etc etc...
I look at things a bit differently. First, I think there is liberating truth (from fear) in the promises of God and His sovereign control of all things. I also see wisdom on the topic from Psalm 33:17-18. At the same time, I also see examples, commands, and precepts concerning just war and just self-defense in the bible.
As for a gun, its just a tool much like the forementioned methods of self defense. Like any other tool, it is kept without much thought, but its there if needed. I do not believe that owning/carrying a firearm implies a sense of distrust about my community any more than installing a smoke detector implies a belief that my house will burn down.
We all have the constitutional right to keep and bear arms for self defense. However, people who do so must understand the responsibility, equip themselves in competent use, and understand the legal provisions for self defense. If one is not willing to do so, they should get a toothy dog and make sure 911 is set in their speed dial.
Maybe its the protective husband/dad thing, or maybe its my belief in the brilliance of the 2nd Amendment, but for me I do choose responsible self defensive gun ownership. God forbid, if my family is ever in imminent grave danger due to criminal intent, such actions will be met with the "aggressive negotiations" end of my firearm. =)
While not inner-city Detroit or Philly, she lives in an area of town that can be a bit rough at times. Over the past several days there's been a serial rapist in her neighborhood. The suspect was caught by police last night.
Anyway, it made me mad that this punk was in my friends neighborhood. So, I sent my friend an email offering to help her if she wanted to exercise her 2A right to bear arms. Here's a copy of our conversation. I'd be curious to hear your thoughts. I would also like to ask those inclined to be "colorful" in how they feel about people to please refrain from personally insulting or being disrespectful to my friend. Also note that we share a common faith, and this faith is referenced in the emails and is not an attempt to "preach" at anyone.
My Initial E-mail...
Jennifer,
I don't know where you are on this kinda thing (since our nation is quite polarized on the issue), but in my perspective you deal with threats to your safety by exercising your 2nd Amendment rights. Cops don't prevent crime, they only investigate it. Plainly spoken, violent crime either happens, or intended victims stop it.
So, if you ever wanna learn defensive shooting or secure a carry permit, let me know. I'd be happy to show you to ropes.
Her Reply...
Mark,
Thank you for the offer, and I'll keep it in my mind in case I do someday feel differently, but I think for now I'll pass. I did go out and buy some pepper spray, even though I've been anti-spray for a while now. I've also considering a scary looking dog with a mouthful of spiky things. It makes me angry that these measures are needed to protect myself.
Yes, I have to be careful. But I also think that fear breeds fear, and violence breeds violence. I *personally* feel that carrying a gun would imply a sense of distrust about my community. I would not impute that same feeling onto others however. Maybe it's just that I was raised in a place that simply wasn't dangerous.
I guess my opinion is that yes, I can deal with threats against my safety by defending myself (in whatever way that might be), but I can also deal with it by working to improve my community, and to improve my community, I can't be afraid of it.
Fear probably the most dangerous weapon.
My follow up email...
Jennifer,
Some good thoughts here. I totally agree that fear can be a real issue. And, if we foster fear it will keep us from loving our neighbor as Christ has sent us into the world to do. I see so many living in fear, whether its due to events in the neighborhood, issues of national security, or the failures in our current economy. Fear is everywhere!
As you've suggested, I have seen people who own firearms develop a fearful mindset. Some are even paranoid. However, this mindset can also exist in people depending on pepper spray, alarms, dogs, cops, deadbolts, tazers, baseball bats, etc etc...
I look at things a bit differently. First, I think there is liberating truth (from fear) in the promises of God and His sovereign control of all things. I also see wisdom on the topic from Psalm 33:17-18. At the same time, I also see examples, commands, and precepts concerning just war and just self-defense in the bible.
As for a gun, its just a tool much like the forementioned methods of self defense. Like any other tool, it is kept without much thought, but its there if needed. I do not believe that owning/carrying a firearm implies a sense of distrust about my community any more than installing a smoke detector implies a belief that my house will burn down.
We all have the constitutional right to keep and bear arms for self defense. However, people who do so must understand the responsibility, equip themselves in competent use, and understand the legal provisions for self defense. If one is not willing to do so, they should get a toothy dog and make sure 911 is set in their speed dial.
Maybe its the protective husband/dad thing, or maybe its my belief in the brilliance of the 2nd Amendment, but for me I do choose responsible self defensive gun ownership. God forbid, if my family is ever in imminent grave danger due to criminal intent, such actions will be met with the "aggressive negotiations" end of my firearm. =)