Fairly new gun owner and current ccw holder, two pistols Taurus g2c ( EDC ) and smith and Wesson m&p 2.0 ( home defense Range gun ) with tactical light. I’ve been around a lot of ex military and law enforcement in my short time on earth so I understand most tactics and usefulness of accessories on weapons. I have an ex military friend that gets very upset when I don’t do what HE WANTS me to do on MY gun, he says my Benelli super nova 12 gauge is a piece of garbage gun, and a tactical light in a pistol is useless. What is everyone’s thoughts on weapon accessories if you’re only involved with guns for the sake of a hobby and of course home defense? His argument is “it’s not tactical and will get you KILLED!” Bc thugs that break into your house can/will shoot at your weapon light making you an easy target. Thoughts?