I started hunting early age. I had no problem just seeing deer. In fact I got as much enjoyment just learning about deer. I am fascinated with them. I spent years going out with nothing, but just looking for deer sign, how the move what they eat, habits, their bedding ground. I taught that to my son as well. It never was about the killing. It was the woods, the quiet, the Peace etc.
There was a full article in The Virginia wildlife magazine last month point to the fact that so many avid hunters want to pass on small bucks. Even many hunt clubs have made their own persona regulations to not shoot them. And their properties all do well.
As I mentioned, One of the most well managed areas to hunt is a large military Reservation. They only allow so many hunters in each zone. They also give the statistics for each zone. How many mature deer broken down into points, age, HOW MANY MAN HOURS FOR EACH DEER KILLED ETC. And those hours to kill a deer are quite a few. But that is not the point. It is a lovely area. Beautiful in the fall and the winter. And yes, I will always see deer. If I do not score a kill. NO BIG DEAL!