An oldie but a goodie
Been down this road a few times. I've carried for years now, and OC on occasion.
Previous threads have yielded a few basic conclusions for me.
1.) If you're taking flack for OC, you're probably taking it from an anti (whether they admit they are one or not). They just happen to know it's there this time around so you become a target of opportunity. Moreover, when you take flack, you'll usually be accused of showing off (before you're even asked your true intentions). Some young guns are out to show off, but it's generally assumed all OC'ers are out to do the same. Sad but true.
2.) It's best IMO to conceal when you can to preserve tactical surprise and avoid idiot gun grabbers who think it's funny to poke Rambo. But I only exercise a reasonable effort to conceal and don't take EXTRAORDINARY measures to do so. If I don't have the right clothing to conceal it, I don't feel guilty for making quick convenience stops and the like.
3.) Treat this with a "live and let live" philosophy. If you OC, do so tactfully and don't answer until asked. If you don't OC, don't assume others must exercise the same restraint. Like being Muslim, liberal, republican, outspoken, immigrant, hippie, or minority: the fact that it makes someone uncomfortable deosn't warrant their impeding your right to go right on doing it. Nor does the fact we may not do it ourselves excuse us from our American duty to defend our fellow citizens' rights.
For further reference, see
http://www.thehighroad.org/showthread.php?t=354872. SIX pages of flaming and hot-blooded American debate!
Deanimator, I think you remember this one.