A couple thoughts:
1) I've had an ACOG and don't love the way its illumination works. Be sure you've tried one in a range of conditions before you buy. IMHO it's a largely obsolete technology now that electronics are reliable. Note that even Trijicon is offering battery-electric illumination in some models. Other than the illumination, it was certainly a small and rugged optic.
2) On my FNAR the picatinny rail is bent upward right at the barrel-receiver junction. I get around this by mounting the front rings behind that, so that the rail is flat/straight from front ring to rear ring. I mention this because I don't know if a night vision device mounted on the rail in line with the scope is going to line up. Check the flatness/straightness of your rail before going down this path. If I were setting up a rifle for NV use it would be a monolithic design, such as the SCAR or any monolithic AR upper.
3) I understand your plans better now, but would still consider variables. There are some very tough moderate power variables - one I would look at is the SWFA SS 3-9x42, which is only $599, has a first focal reticle and three heavy posts to help at night. You can get illumination in the Vortex Viper PST 2.5-10x32, for around $700 (best price), which is another good scope.
4) I'm not down on the FNAR - I'm keeping mine and enjoy shooting it - but I would consider any of the above scopes as tough as the FNAR, and if I wanted a really, really tough setup it would not start with the FNAR, but something more like a Colt 901 or LMT MWS.